i've got bully problems, plz help!!!!!?

Question

ok, so this bully wants to kick my *** because she heard someone telling that i talk sh.it about her even though i don't.
so i keep telling her that i didn't but she doesn't believe me.
i said " i swear i never anything about u"
then she says" then why did so and so said that u did?"

so how do i handle it?
no way i'm telling my parent or teacher?

also, i have no time to learn self-defense and i don't know any either.
plz help me!!!!!!!!!

*** saids a.s.s

Answer 1

Well you say please help me but then you go on to say all of the things you will not do to help yourself. That my friend is a victim mentality. You'll always be bullied in life if you go through it in that frame of mind. Sorry.

Answer 2

Bully's are usually cowards if someone tougher comes along they back down.
Many years ago a young boy was being bullied at school he was small for his age.
One day he arrived home after being beaten by the school bully.
His father questioned him as to what had happened so he told him.
His father took him aside and said"I will give you a dime for every bully you beat up".
So he got a bit of four by two wood and waited behind the tree when this kid came along he whacked him good and proper with it knocking him to the ground.
After that incident he won the respect of the bully and the kids .
And received a pat on the back from his dad along with the dime.
Do not be intimidated by people such as this,look her in the eye and tell her if she hits you she will get one back give her a good hard punch in the stomach and when she bends over push her to the ground.
Then help her up.
It is the only way to handle this type of person .
You say no way you are telling your parents or the teacher they are the adults who are responsible for protecting you.
Don't worry about what the other kids think if they cared they would step in and help.
This type of thing needs to be stopped!!
Take care!

Answer 3

it is really too bad you are not comfortable telling an adult about your problem. I understand though, that having a teacher confront this girl about her bothering you would most likely just give her more incentive to pick at you. I believe she enjoys pestering you because you are not standing up for yourself and that makes her feel powerful. You do need to tell an adult that you trust that she is trying to start sh** with you and you can ask them not to interfere. This bully needs to know you are not weak. I'm not saying you need to fight her but you do need to stand up for yourself. Don't give her any power over you. You don't need to argue with her about if you said this or that. Just blow her off, like you don't care what she might do. ~WHATEVER~ If she can't make you beg she may back off. If she doesn't back off then having an adult eye turned your way will be very important. They can then intervien without the bully knowing that you told them. I hope it works out. I told my own daughter, in a similar situation, that if a fight is inevitable, it doesn't matter if you lose or win. What matters is if you run away or stand to fight. Run once and you'll run forever, stand tall and fight and you may only have to do it one time. Even if you lose. She not only stood tall but went after that girl like her hair was on fire. The school did suspend her for fighting but since she had told my about the girl the week before she did not get into trouble at home. I even went in and argued agaist her suspension with the Princapal and had her suspension reduced to 1 day rather than 2. She hasn't had bully problems since. Good Luck.

Answer 4

knuckles up head low punch straight on the nose or chin lol or ure not much of a brawler then i sujest u practice ure commebacks u know i mean u might still get beat but u ll have much more pride then her bullies are usually strong at certain things n are really weak in others try to find out her weakness n try t get some dirt on her whole group aswell good luck if all else fails contect her parents n tell em she s being a biatch i mean not the ebst thing to do but pherhaps the most reasonable btw keep a couple of friends close around school u never knwo when u need ot be backed up

Answer 5

Act cool - do NOT cry!!!!!!. First try approaching so-and-so and ask why they lied. Assault it assault - it is against the law to go around hurting others. The mistake you're making is that you think it is acceptable to allow this to happen by not telling a teacher or parent. I would tell a teacher, if you don't want to upset your parents. Why? Because this is why bullies get away with it. You might be able to get someone to mediate for you. But make it clear that there will be consequences to pay if you get hurt.

Answer 6

i would confront the person that started the rumor and ask then why they said that about you. for the bully, i would just try to stay away from them but if you don't have any other choice but to fight then just do it to the best of your ability. i will teach you something that i learned from karate class. fighting is only only 20% physical. the other 80% is mental. this means that if you can outsmart your opponent then most of the time you will have the upperhand even if you don't have the know how to defend yourself. i hope it doesn't come to this though. good luck.

Answer 7

start talking more about her, she doesn't think your telling the truth then make it true to her. make fun of her. Tell others things that aren't true and embarassing about her. If she gets mad or start to cry. Then say "now do you see how that hurts! when you bully someone the get frustrated and they start to cry, maybe if you were to back off this wouldn't have happened...!" Then she will probably see. If she wants to get in a fist fight then thats when you have to tell someone (teacher) even though you don't want to, but you don't want to go to school with a bruised eye. Or if you don't want to do that and your strong enough then go ahead and fight her but I'd tell the teacher. Thats what I can think of. &hearts

Answer 8

hehe i remember in 5th grade when i got in a fight about this SAME THING. she got me by surprise, which just means she was a scared little shitt. first of all how old are you? you don't sound very young. just tell her that so and so is a lying motha fucka and that if she wanna kick someone's as*s for talking shitt about her then go and talk to the two-faced hussie that spreads lies.
im an angry person
if you take the first shot, which isn't good, try to hit them it the neck reallly really hard
or if you want to you wanna hit them in teh jaw really good or just in the head. but it's not good to take the first shot because you get in trouble for starting the fight, they just started the verbal fight.
i wish i could be there
im a serious a.ss kicker

Answer 9

drag the person who said u said stuff over to the person she said u said stuff about.. an then see what happens.. or else just practise feelin really mad an hit your pillow lol an hava good go at her if she starts somethin lol..