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2007-02-03 15:05:14 · 23 answers · asked by i ♥ jimmy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, so boyfriends...yeah. Sometimes it takes some time to find a good one, and by "good one" I mean a guy that will Love you because you are yourself. I've heard that guys who say your pretty are just talking about the inside and the guys who say your hot are just talking about the outside...but when a guy says your beautiful...he's talking about both. That's good.
2007-02-03 15:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna M 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Assuming you are really "hot" looking (that seems to be what you are implying): my experience has been that a really attractive gal can only get uglier, as her "ugly" personality traits come to surface. But a homely girl can only become more beautiful, as her inner sweetness begins to radiate thru. [An average looking lady can go either way...depending upon the personality that comes to light over time.]
So what you need to do, is ask yourself (and get feedback from your girlfriends, and maybe even some ex-boyfriends) about your personality, and what could use improvement. Do you tend to rely on your looks to attract & keep guys--expecting them to cater to you, and worship you, because you could get anyone you want with your stunning beauty? Or, are you very giving, attenitive to your guy's needs--including to hang with the guys (sans girlfriends) once in a while?
These are just a couple examples of some of the things you may want to look at, if boyfriends do not stick around. The point is, if you develop something more than just good looks, a guy will stay around for the long haul, rather than just make his conquest, and move on to new challenges. Make staying with you a better option than leaving for another pretty face.
But most of all, be patient...this is all God's training for you to become the pleasing spouse to the mate He has already picked out for you. You will never meet this guy, until your (and his) training is complete.
2007-02-03 15:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Howie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I struggle with this question every day.
In order for you to have a relationship there has to be SOME initial attraction. For some people, the initial attraction can be a nice smile, nice butt, or whatever. Depends on how picky they are. Who wants to be in a relationship where you are not attracted to someoen?
Once the initial attraction is there, then the personality comes in to effect. That is what makes the guy fall in love not just lust.
If you think a guy will ignore the fact that you are hot and just want your mind you are insane.
2007-02-03 15:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by summaryruled 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
humm...that's tough. Not very many people know how hard it is for "hot" or very pretty girls. People envy them, but alot of guys just date them either because they are hot or because they think they are easy. I say the best thing for you to do is let your beauty draw them but once your in a relationship let your personality shine. When you start dating a guy that you want to see you for more than a pretty face, put him in situations where you are just at home no make-up or not all dressed up, test how much he cares about you. If he starts to trip, then he is ALL about your looks. If he doesn't, then he might be a keeper he cares about more then how "hot" you are.
2007-02-03 15:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by laangel464 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think there is a difference between being "hot" versus being attractive or beautiful. I think you have to take an honest look at yourself and try to figure out what image you are projecting to boys. Do you dress provocatively? Or trying to look sexy? If you are most guys are going to view you as "hot" or as a sexual object and not see who you really are. No doubt that most guys are pigs. If you are aware of who you are and what image you are projecting then I think you can find guys who will love you for who you are. But be wise and don't be naive.
2007-02-03 15:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
See the problem with hot girls the reason they dont find guys that love them is b/c girls like you usually just care about the way yourself looks. Most of the time cant keep a good conversation going. But if you aint like that then I would say yes.
2007-02-03 15:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 09:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by koffler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u will. there is always a right guy but looks r important u will not get someone cute if u r not. the right guy will like u 4 every little part about u :) and u can tell
2007-02-03 15:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by charmed_julianne1994 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends. Do you use your hotness to get things? If you ever want to be taken seriously be a man you need to not be vain, materialistic, whiney and all the other things that one would normally associate with someone who would ask a question like the one you did.
2007-02-03 15:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by jeremycharles7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn to spell.
Develop your personality. Get hobbies. Study hard. Make good grades.
2007-02-03 15:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋