My boyfriend is pushing me down on beds(playfully)but ill lean up then he'll push me down again then climb up on me,
Also when I was sitting on my bed watching a movie he came up and grabbed my legs and pulled me from the middle of the bed to him with my legs around him!!
&when he wants to kiss he will kind of push my face towards his or when we're kissing and I pull away he'll push the back of my head with his hand so I can't pull away,
And the biggest thing for me was:we where kissing on his bed and he started getting all handsy and he put his hand on my (magicconchshell)& started rubbing\&i moved his hand &he said sorry then we kept kissing then he started again&I moved his hand&he said sorry babe then we started kissing&he did it again but when i tried to move his hand he wouldnt let me move it at all &he did it more then he stopped after like 2mins (felt like forever)so whats this all sound like to you??
Please give me your advice/opinion on this all..
Thanks Ashley-
2007-02-03 15:04:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
&whenever he sees like short skirts he'll say you aint wearin none of that whore stuff with me.
Im 16 hes 17.
2007-02-03 15:04:46 · update #1
he is pressuring you. he wants sex and u ovbiously arent ready for that. i would leave him hun because one day he is going to be realy really wanting sex and you wont be able to stop him. if you cant stop him from rubbing your **** then i dont think you are going to be capable of stopping him from doing other things. this isnt ment as an insult though because guys are just stronger than us. i think you should dump him but if you dont want to do that and it sounds like you dont because you havent done it yet then talk to him, tell him that when you say stop that means he stops when you say no it means no and if he cant understand that honey than it is bibi!!
2007-02-03 15:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by cndrll_1613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend doesn't respect you. He's dominating you and not stopping you when you say stop verges on abuse.
My advice to you would be to sit down with him - with other people nearby - and tell him you don't like it when he continues to do those things after you've asked him to stop. Tell him it hurts when he is pushing himself on you or shoving your face into his.
See how he responds. If he seems surprised that you don't like the roughness, maybe give him exactly one more chance. If he does the same things - get up and get out of there. Don't waiver and go back to him in a couple of days. Remain firm.
The scary thing is, he's not paying attention to your wishes, and this is borderline abuse. He could very well esculate into more violent behavior or forcing you to have sex with him when you don't want to - also known as rape.
I know you don't want to hear this, but you are young and will have plenty more guys most of whom, hopefully, will treat you with more consideration.
Procede VERY cautiously with this guy. He sounds like he could be trouble, and you don't deserve that. You deserve respect and kindness from the guys you date.
Good luck, hun.
2007-02-03 23:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt have any respect for you - thats the bottom line. If he did he wouldnt be doing the things he's doing.
Tell him how you feel and that you dont like the way hes acting. If he cant give you a good responce (more than im sorry, since that doesnt seem to meen anything to him) then tell him goodbye.
you could press rape charges,but unless you really want to go through all that ,try talking first.
2007-02-03 23:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys just want a piece of it. I am not most guys. I know alot of my guy friends talk about sex all the time and who they did it with. I am going to be blunt when I say he is very controlling and you should be careful of this guy. Better yet, if you have told him to stop and he continues, dump him.
2007-02-03 23:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by disco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Big Rome and yo.
what would he do if he was drinking or even angry. I would run as fast as you could away from this cat.
2007-02-03 23:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by MARCUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He raped you. Report him to the police and stay away from him. Her is dangerous!
2007-02-03 23:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by Yahoo Con 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes an ***. he doenst respect you.
2007-02-03 23:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by yo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋