Does guys only want a girl with a slim body? Because a guy friend told me i should lose weight if i want to get a boyfriend. It never bothered me before....but now it got me thinking....
2007-02-03 14:56:59 · 33 answers · asked by chardonnayormerlot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
someone who will like you for only you wont think about that fact either hun...so stop thinking that way..what matters is your inside..not your appearance..however its not bad to exercise to motivate yourself cuz for many people working out hard makes them feel great about themselves but remember that's not everybody..so dont worry bout someone only liking you if you have a slim body..the person who will love you will only love you for how beautiful you are from the inside...hope i helped hun
2007-02-03 15:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Tidus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, on a lot of girls, a little meat looks good. i think a lot of it has to do with your personality and yes, your face. even though that is harsh. most guys want "hot" girlfriends, but even the good and honest ones arent going to approach one that they find repulsive. hence, they never have the chance of knowing whether they could love that girl. i think that if it doesnt bother you, then you should just stay the way you are. you dont have to change for a guy. and yeah, to answer your question, the men that are worthy of having gf's dont care as much about slim bodies.
2007-02-03 15:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by missy_t_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around you not all men are with skinny women, the average American women is a size 12 (not real skinny but healthy) maybe your friend is shallow and only likes skinny girls. Please don't let what he said bother you guys are more turned off by low self-esteem than weight. Women are probably approached more often when they are thin but a great smile and personality will have men giving you a second look. Good Luck to you
2007-02-03 15:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK there are guys that like skinny woman and others that like Palm woman believe me if you never had a problem before then why start now. in if you are happy about the way you look does not mean that a guy is not checking you out. guys be checking me out all the time I'm a Palm young woman and i never had a problem but it really don't all madder on your weight it also dispense on the type of person you are that what really get a guy to really like you. a real guy not one of them that just when you for sex but when you for your you.
2007-02-03 15:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by sheena w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hairdresser is a largish woman we work out at the same gym but her body type is different than mine. She's probably a size 12 and I'm a 6 - 8. I like my shape 'cause I've lots of muscle mass. She is fit and enjoys her shape. She just finished a 1/2 marathon for the 2nd time. I'm fit but I think she would beat me in a long distance race.
We have both been happily married for years. And we both have great sex lives, the things you talk about while you process.
2007-02-03 15:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by LAUGHING MAGPIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are more attracted to girls who aren't chubby... but I will tell you 3 things. Your personality will get you further than anything... and a strong body will keep you looking better when you get older. A skinny weak body gets old and tired looking fast... so just do some exercise, lift some weights and get into shape... you will build character and personality along with building a nice body.
2007-02-03 15:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by sushihen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl but I think guys actually like a girl whos thick and has a body. Im skinny and It sux, guys dont even look at me because I look like a stick have no boobs or ***. A girl with a body is better looking, she looks healthy and how could any deny a girl with boobs and a nice *** lol
2007-02-03 14:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone's gonna tell u different things but this almost universal:
slim body with some curves.
too slim, turn off
too curvy (as in, not toned and not fit at all) also-- turn off
the girls that have that combo going really get the most attention-- # potential bf's jus shoots up
2007-02-03 15:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want a guy that will care for you, I wouldn't worry about your weight (for that reason, at least) Just make sure to be healthy, and find a guy that will like you for you inner-self and not because you are skinny with big boobs.
2007-02-03 15:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that all depends on the guy. Yeah....most guys like skinny girls. Mainly from the main stream media placing super models in our faces. So now that's what we expect. But there are still guys out there that will love you for you. I know a guy like that now. He's 115lbs wet...and married to a woman who's 285 lbs + But she's a sweet heart..and they are married..about to have a baby..and in love.
2007-02-03 15:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋