i have had a bad childhood with my stepdad allways braking my moms heart with cheating and abusing us. so i'm really shy around guys, but one guy i can't stop thinking about is so cute and i really want to get to know him. every time i talk to him i get nerves what should i do?
2007-02-03 14:56:57 · 13 answers · asked by miss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it slow and easy with him. Each time you talk to him you will feel more and more comfortable. Try to find things you have in common so the conversation will flow more easily. Those nerves are probably high because you do really want to get to know him better.
2007-02-03 14:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way I ever got a crush to give me attention was to come straight out at them. There was this guy I had a crush on for a long time. One night I got the opportunity to sit by him. I motioned for him to put his ear in front of my mouth and I told him I thought he was the hottest guy and I had been feeling him for a long time. He told me "hold up, you making me blush". The rest was history.
2007-02-03 15:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to tell you the truth there honestly is nothing to be nervous about and here is what i mean, if this "guy" has spoken with you this must mean that he definitely does not, not like you and that there must be some interest in you if he is taking time to talk to you, so you need to just calm down and relax because there truly is nothing to worry about.
2007-02-03 15:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to talk to him in a friendly way n eventually he might start to like u too
2007-02-03 15:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by starxxgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry to hear about your childhood but you shouldnt let wat happened to u get in the way of getting to know this guy. Wat i do is pretend u and him r the only one's in the room or pretend your talking to a good male friend. It always works for me
2007-02-03 15:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking until you feel comfortable enough and then ask him out.
2007-02-03 15:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by bsufanforlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to care fr him and make him think that u like him and also try to get his attention like some time teasing him.. irritating him and also try to show love to him belive me he will be urs later
2007-02-03 15:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by Dev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell him how much u like him cuz guys really like it wen girls tell them they like them cuz its makes us feel special n it makes it easier 2 talk 2 them wen u kno they like u
2007-02-03 15:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by Tevin L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a carrot and start pumpin.
think about school and get good grades.
2007-02-03 15:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell tha guy its tha best to me its always worked
2007-02-03 15:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by maddie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋