Why do you always pick the Jerks,
and then complain about how they treat you?
But when a nice guy tries to ask you out,
you reject them?
2007-02-03 14:54:26 · 19 answers · asked by Kuraimizu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've tried asking many Girls out. each time they have lied and rejected me.
2007-02-03 15:00:21 · update #1
How shallow this sounds, They go for the good looking Jerks, Not the Nice, Average Joes. Try to impress this lucky lady by going to the Spa, Salon, Tan for a bit. What ever makes you look vibrant and glowing! Good Luck!
2007-02-03 14:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jaannaaaa <33 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you ever try picking up the nice girls? Guys do the same thing. They complain all the pretty girls are either too busy being a bitty or are into mirrors, themselves, and how much more money her guy has to spend on her than her friend's boyfriend. All guys (even the "nice" ones) look at the body. If it ain't slim, then it ain't happening!! And of course some nice guys who actually think they are nice, aren't. I know, I dated enough "ugly, nice" guys to earn the right to say so. I just got lucky that the last "nice" guy I met, I've been with for the past 91/2 years. No he isn't the handsomest, but to me he is the most gorgeous creature around. He is a great guy, and that is all that matters to me.
2007-02-03 15:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by momofatsc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A FEW?! LOL That's what the MAJORITY of girls love, want, and crave. Pal I'm a fellow nice guy, I understand your sentiment. They pick the jerks because the jerks are outgoing and stuff. EVERY girl, whether or not they like to admit or not, love and crave the attention. As a result of the jerks having scant brain cells, they are able to do this. Us nice guys, we're too darn shy to get up on a table and be like "look everyone, so and so is my gf and i want yall to know that she's the hottest thing out there". You see where I'm going with this? Hold your head high bro, you're going to find yourself a nice a beautiful woman one day-- every nice guy does.
2007-02-03 15:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by g13player 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm going out with a VERY nice guy. But it wasn't always like that. As women get older, they realise that "cool", so-called exciting guys are actually - as you say - self- obsessed and inconsiderate jerks, and choose the nice guy. Some men get better as they get older too, and stop being jerks. Some of each gender never grow out of it...
Nothing wrong with being nice - as long as you're not coming over like a doormat. Maintain an air of mystery - not too available, interested but not over-attentive. Girls like to do a little chasing too!
2007-02-03 15:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by ginnikins 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It works out the same way for us. I mean, you just have to be sure of what you want to do and hope for the best. What you said doesn't apply to all girls. Some girls date for looks. Some for status. The REAL girls that are looking for real love are the ones that are gonna pick the "good guys" just... be patient. It'll eventually come. If you get rejected then just move on. It's the best way.
2007-02-03 14:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by Eden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband is a nice guy.
I waded my way through plenty of jerks before I realised he was the one. And he had been there the whole time, waiting patiently.
He got the girl in the end. You should relax a bit and know that one day you'll find her.
2007-02-03 15:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Kristy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most of the times the nice guys are either freaks are won't be able to protect their woman, so most girls do you like meaner guys case they think that in the harshness there will be an assurance of protection. but I find geeks freakishly hot and I LOVE a guy that holds a door and can talk about reading with no shame.
2007-02-03 15:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by Suya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would like a nice guy but I'm afriad of being rejected that I am just waiting for him to come after me.
2007-02-03 14:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always seek out the nice guy. I want HIM to pick ME up, but he's usually too polite to try. Lazy would bge the reason to go for the jerk. Impatience.
2007-02-03 14:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nice girls like nice guys. But nice girls are hard to find too.
2007-02-03 15:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by M L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋