ok i dated this boy and i dumped him and now we dont go together but yet he wants to have sex and wants me to do oral on him( and i do it ) NOTE: WE DONT GO OUT NOW.but he doesn't want a relationship with m yet i still have sex with him and give him money. he knows that i care about him and that i want to be with him but yet he says let time take its course. he tells me that he likes me and all that other stuff and that he cares.At the time we were dating I remember the day when he left me at his house after we did it. he told me that he had to go make money and that he would be right back but yet i waited for 2 hours. i was so hurt. he told me it was a mishap. he makes me feel like im not good enough. i feel as if im just no good. he uses me so bad. I give him money too because i see it as being there for him seeing that his parents wont give him money. i need help and advice. with him sometimes i feel pretty and sometimes i dont. im so insecure now.im 15. please help me.
2007-02-03 14:37:37 · 7 answers · asked by smfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is going to come out harsh, so i will aplogize in advance. GROW A BACKBONE AND STAND UP FOR YOURSELF, HE IS ONLY USING YOU FOR A NUT AND A POCKETBOOK!!! sorry for yelling. he is using you and you are letting him walk all over you. you have to put a stop to this right now, or for the rest of your life guys like him will just use you and throw you away like yesterdays newspaper. the first step to confidence is liking yourself, and it builds from there. please I am begging you don't let this continue or it could lay the foundation for what the rest of your life is going to be like.
2007-02-03 14:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by smitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! You are just 15 yrs old, and you are controlled by this guy. I mean, its stoopid.
I understand you are having a hard time with this guy. You seriously want to have a relationship and he doesnt. All I was thinking was that, you should pull away from him bit by bit. Dont ever make yourself a servant for him. You have a life. And you are only 15. For goodness sake, pls enjoy your life first before getting into a relationship, or in your case, NOT in a RELATIONSHIP.
Dont ever think of his parents not giving him money as a reason for you to stick with him. Sticking with him means more insuecurity you are feeling. Aniway, all that I see from your situation, is that he's using you BIG TIME! And pls oh pls, don ever have sex when both of you are not in a relationship.
I understand that your life is VERY COMPLICATED with him. Make sure he is really out of your life, for GOOD.
2007-02-03 14:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by M Asteria 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At age 15 you dont need to be having sex with someone. And you don't need to be in a seious relationship like that. He uses you. You even said that why don't you move on with your life. You will grow up thinking that all men are dogs and that no man is good enough al because of that *** hole. All I can tell you is to stop giving him your money. STOP HAVING SEX! and MOVE ON!
2007-02-03 14:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Barack The Boat!™ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is simply using u and all u r to him is an easy way to get off and stop giving him money, hes old enough to look after himself and is just using u so piss this guy off and find urself a real man who dont use u for sex or money!
2007-02-03 14:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont want to seem rude but u r freakin 15 and u r saying that ur havin boy problems, go and read a book, study for a test .... u have all of ur life to date and play the puppy love game, and as for the boy u were datng .... HE'S A USER......
leave all of that alone
please
2007-02-03 14:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful_1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
where were u when i was 15 !!!!!
2007-02-03 14:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ratt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg get the hell out of that relationship even though it isnt a real relationship in the first place, he's just using you. and you deserve better than that.
2007-02-03 14:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by missy_t_09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋