he when hes busy or somthing he always sorry and he makes
excuses where talk online or the phone andmy bf and i made plans to see each other and he stood me up i rang and rang his phone i sent text messges and i wait then decied to go to his house but i have only been there twice i got lost that was all day yestday i and still havent herd from him and he hanvt talk to me for 5 days and this is the first time hes done this and he said he wasnt busy satday . and if he did forgot .how can a guy forget a bout his girlfriend? we have beeing going out for 3 months
2007-02-03 14:34:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. That guy isn't being very clear to you, but it's clear to me that he's not that interested anymore it seems. If a guy is into you, he will go the extra mile to see you, he will stop what he's doing to call you. And he would have you on his mind. So I highly doubt he just "forgot". If he wasn't busy Saturday, then what's the other excuse he's got? I think he just can't find the way to tell you he isn't interested, and instead he's just blowing you off. I think if anything, your calls and texting is simply proving to him more reasons not to be with you. (I have and would have done the same thing.) He probably thinks you're getting too clingy now.
2007-02-03 14:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but unless hes dead i think its over and he just doesnt have the guts to let u know. If u do here from him and he still wants to be with u, he better have a really good excuse for it, u dont deserve to be treated like that. I would send him a msg sayin that u assume its over and that u r fine and it wont be long til u find a real man!
2007-02-03 22:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT sounds to me u like him more than he likes you. If i were u i would not let that relationship go any longer. you dont want to be waiting around five days waiting for him to call when u could be out there with someone better. i think it is a waste of your time. i mean do u really want that? excuses and stood ups? Find someone better then he can no how it feels :)
2007-02-03 22:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by charmed_julianne1994 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sGirl...take this for what you want .... But you should never chaise a boy, have more respect for yourself than that, because they do if you appear to eager and that is how it looks to them. Dint call him let him call you....if you have not heard from him in another week....move on, he is not worth it anyway...Just never appear eager to a boy...always let him be the one to do most of the calling, unless he wants u to call him at a specific time, or you need to break a date....or someone in Either family dies. This is one of the things that my husband said that he hated. he knew that they were easy if they kept calling, and running him down all over the place.
2007-02-03 22:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuses.
2007-02-03 22:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he's one of the many immature people who breaks up with people by not talking to them..:( Sorry..
2007-02-03 22:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by Ethernaut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oohh.. not a good sign... i think that you should dump him. because it seems as if he doesnt care for a relationship right now. or maybe he has another girlfriend. it hurts. but its the SMART thing to do.
2007-02-03 22:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that was hard to read. Take a deep breath and try again.
2007-02-03 22:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by justr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating or is he really that dumb, NO TURST NO POINT
2007-02-03 22:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by J D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋