i really need your help..coz i miss my ex-bf and i sometimes get jealous of his girl friends(friends that are girls)..does this mean i'm still into him?if he wants to be with me again,should i take him back?pls..i think i'm still into him and at the same time i think i'm not..sooo confused..
2007-02-03 14:25:06 · 9 answers · asked by nicly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a lot of times people feel this way, sometimes it is just because they may not want the person, but they don't want anyone else to have them either. you are the only one who can decide what it is you are feeling. consider these questions and they may help.
1. what cause you two to break up?
2.what is it that made you like him to begin with, and does he still act or think or look the same way now?
3. how well did ya'll get along when you were dating?
think about this for awhile then decide
2007-02-03 14:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not necissarily. Well, maybe it depends on how long the two of you have been broken up. If it was maybe within the last year or so, you may not be over him, or maybe you are not over having him around. Do you possibly miss him or having a bf? Maybe it is not jealousy, maybe it could be you have not allowed yourself to let him go and one part of you still feels like he belongs to you (when he is around other girls).
As far as taking him back...if he cheated on you, or did something horrible, DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK. If you guys broke up on mutual grounds, sure why not. If you love him, why not be with someone you love?
2007-02-03 14:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I have been in the same situation that you are in right now and what I did was that I took him bak way too many times and I finally got over him and I moved on to someone else. And I am glad that I did move on and get over him. but if you think that he still wants to be with you then go for it, but if yall keep on breaking up and geting back together then yall might not be good for one another.
2007-02-03 14:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel jealous then there is definetly some sort of feeling there. It's up to you whether or not you take him back, but remember why you broke up in the first place. Just try to distance yourself from him for awhile until you figure out your true feelings.
2007-02-03 14:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually takes as long of a time to get over a relationship as it does to get involved in one ,start to finish.So plan on mixed feelings for a while, time will decide!!
2007-02-03 14:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by thad007ryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It surrre seems like you still love him! But what happened in your current relationship? Did he play around on you or anything big like that? If you just got into a little fight and broke it off because of that, I'd DEFINITELY go for it!!
2007-02-03 14:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by love_me_4_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible that you are, but it is also possible that you are just getting over a break up...it takes time and it's never easy..feelings of jealous and loneliness are common but it doesnt nessarily mean that you want him back.
2007-02-03 14:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so not over him.....If you still love him, and he's worth it, swallow your pride and see if you two can work it out. You have to make this decision on your own. Good luck!
2007-02-03 14:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes go back out with him dont lose ur chance
2007-02-03 14:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by ♠DistaUkr♠ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋