Will i be able to stay over night with her or will i have to stay behind? She Has cancer and is very verry ill. I dont want to leacve her but i dont want to see her die either. :"(
2007-02-03 14:22:39 · 27 answers · asked by Alex 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
My little preacious is gonig into chemo in a few hours, im so scared, will i be with her for chemo?
2007-02-03 15:43:50 · update #1
they will let you stay with her for every thing nut the surgery. in that they need a completely clean environment. I hope the best for you and your daughter. my sister is 7 and I cannot even imagine losing her.
2007-02-03 14:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First thing I want to say is my prayers and everyone I know will be praying for you and her too. And 2nd is that now a days hospitals will let parents stay with the child and even provide a recliner or even a bed to stay right next to her and help with her care through the nite. You didn't mention your daughter's father and if he is willing to stay with her so you can alternate staying beside her. If he isn't around or willing ,do you have a mother or best friend to help you as you will need to go home and get some rest every so often or you will become so tired your mind won't be able to focus. I know,cause this has happened in my family both with cousins' who needed someone around the clock and then both my mother and father also had to have someone there and me and my sisters rotatedstaying with my parents. Years ago, I had 2 cousins going through what your daughter is having done(early 60's) and my aunt had to stay with them as my uncle wouldn't / couldn't . So you need some help and any relative or friend who can relieve you on this vigil is what you need or you will be in the hospital too from exhaustion.
2007-02-03 17:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you'll be able to stay. At any hospital, anywhere. Don't give up hope. Contact St. Jude's hospital for children. They are doing wonders with "terminal" cases these days. Your child doesn't necessarily have to die and money is not the object with so many organizations like Shriners,
St. Jude and others out there. Contact your hospital social worker or google these organizations.
Your child is in my prayers. So are you and the rest of your family. It's not over until God says so. Pray.
2007-02-03 14:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If anyone gives you grief about staying with her, you INSIST upon staying with her. That is your right, and YOURS ALONE as her mother. No matter what she is going through, you are the only mother she has, and she needs you there, during every single moment.
Some moments will be difficult... it's your job to be her cheerleader now... what a great job she's doing, how great things will be when she's better... she doesn't need to hear negative talk or see you crying all the time.
It's time to suck it up for HER...
2007-02-04 09:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Amy S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that this is happening to you. Dont give up hope miracles happen. You need to be strong for her and stay with her every minute of her precious life. If you feel like she is suffering give her permission to die. I know that this is hard but you have to be there for her until the end. I hope she has a father and you have a husband for support. God bless.
2007-02-03 16:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for what your going thru right now.You should be able to stay with her bcause when my girl was 3 yr old she was diagnosed with septic arthritis in her hip and had to have surgery and stayed a week in children's hospital,my husband stayed with her the whole time in a private room and we were not charged for his stay or for the food and other things he used,and she was the only one with insurance,also you may want to talk with the hospital social worker because i don't know how your hospital works but i hope this helps you.
2007-02-03 14:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by patty p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to your and your family, I will pray for your daughter. You should definitely be able to stay with your daughter. I am at a loss for words here, I know that there is nothing that I can say to make you feel better. She is probably so frightened, hold her hand and just keep telling her that you love her more than anything in the world. I will pray god bless you
2007-02-03 14:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by missaboo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am so so sorry you are having to go through this. you should be able to stay with her. words cannot possibly express what you are going through right now. you and your daughter will be in my thoughts and prayers. if you ever need someone to talk to, just e-mail me ctaylor_2003@yahoo.com it is in the lords hands now. just be there by her side. sorry i can't be of more help. honestly i am at kind of a loss for words. i know that there is nothing that anyone could say to make this situation any better but if indeed there is a good side to this it is that she is going to a far better place. may the lord be with you.
2007-02-03 16:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,I think you should stay with her and enjoy the precious hours you have left with her. And also know you are in my prayers and I will mention you and your family at my church prayer service tommrow. Know that Jesus and God both love you a lot!! And there is a reason for everything here is a few Bible verses that you and your family might find usefull through your time of struggle...
"The Lord is near to all who call on him,to all who call on him in truth.He fulfills the desires of those who fear him;he hears thier cry and saves them.-Psalm 145:18-19
Let him hear you cry and he will answer you and help you and he is there with your child and your family and you!!!
I hope that all turns out well STAY STRONG!!KEEP YOUR FAITH!!AND REMEMBER ITS NEVER TO LATE KEEP YOUR HOPES SHE MAY COME OUT OF IT AND BE STRONGER THAN EVER!!! I HOPE ALL IS WELL SOON!!! IM PRAYING FOR YOU!!!
2007-02-03 15:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by *** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stay with her. My brother in law had leukemia for the past two years and has been in and out of the hospital. When he was waiting for a bone marrow transplant, he was hospitalized in the childrens cancer ward. Parents get to stay and most hospitals are VERY commodating to parents and families.
I'm very sorry your little one has to deal with this, but she needs you more than ever. You can do this. Bring games, videos, stuff for her to do.
Hang in there and hugs to you.....
2007-02-03 17:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll be able to stay with her. Stay with her as much as you can, if these {God forbid} are her last minutes you will want to remember everything, so it's best to stay with her. I had a baby die so I know what it's like to lose a child only ours was very sudden.
I am saying prayers for your child! God bless you and best of luck to you.
2007-02-04 10:17:43 · answer #11 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋