I am in grade 9 and I am dating a girl who is in grade 8. She is 13 and I am 15. It's not like we are having sex, we just go to movies with each other, and stuff like that, and hold hands or whatever. But do you think it is wrong? I have seen questions like these before, and most people (adults) always say "your too young to date" or whatever, but most teenagers do date, so please don't tell me that, just tell me if you think it's weird/wrong for me to be dating this girl??
2007-02-03 14:17:35 · 16 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no...should age matter? besides ur in 9th and she's in 8th...what's wrong w/ that?
2007-02-03 14:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by savy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... If u think thatz bad I'm 15 and I'm dating a guy thatz 19. Like all my friends date guys that are 2 or 3 years older.. Its really no big deal... Itz not like ur having sex... just a relationship and therez nothing wrong with that. And yea.. most adults do think we're too young to be dating... but i think they're wrong... If u really like this girl then u don't need my opinion or ne1 elses to make up ur mind. You know in ur heart what u want and what is right and wrong for you! Hope I helped! Good Luck!
2007-02-03 22:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by ksm_623 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong because there really isn't a difference between two years apart when you are in school then being two years apart when you are older. Age shouldn't matter as long as you are on the same level.
2007-02-03 22:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by roxanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is wrong because there is only a 2 year difference and plus ya'll are not having sex so I don't think it is a problem.
2007-02-05 11:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by me,,, the girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i mean i hav thought about going out with some1 like 3 grades below me, but i mean , maturity with that is way diff., but im still not sure about him, but if u love her n like her, then dont let age stop u,but do u think its weird? its only 2 grades, so what!haha,im in 9th, n i wouldnt care about going out with an 8th, hey i acctually did, lol, so i def. dont think its weird or wrong
2007-02-03 22:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing Wrong with it just dont rush things since she's younger she might not be so confident take things kinda slow
2007-02-03 22:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by Ross N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no specific age or time to date. so if u think it is ok it is ok.most aduts are wrong. now kids are getting mature than adults. so go with what u think is right.
2007-02-03 22:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think It does not matter if you like someone younger. What matters is if you love her a lot. If you do than tell her, and stay with her because she can maybe the dream girl of your life...
2007-02-03 22:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anne P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol that's not wrong at all! people will say the "your too young to date" all the time. i still hear it and i'm 16. altho it might be difficult with you being in hs and her still being in ms. but i say go for it
2007-02-03 22:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by soccerstar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boy its fine my friend was in the 8th grade last year and she was dateing a 6th grader!
2007-02-04 10:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by MiZZ. AL3XiS "YOU KNOW" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not wrong at all who cares what ppl say at least your guys are doing anything bad and if you do make sure she is ready first
2007-02-03 22:24:59 · answer #11 · answered by alexandra a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋