how do i help my cousin who is 9 years old and obcessed with sex and boys, she should be playin with barbies, but instead she goes to porn sites and watches that stuff and its really gross, and she told me herself that she is a sex maniac, one time she told me that when she grows up she wants to put the rape drug in my drink and rape me i was like wtf??? and im 16 lol i tried to stop her and tell her mom, but she still does it, what should i do? her mom is careless!
2007-02-03 14:17:03 · 12 answers · asked by californiadudette1991 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and she has a nice big family i dont know anyone in her family that would abuse her sexually, but she does have this disease called polio or something and she cant walk properly.
2007-02-03 14:26:32 · update #1
Call "Childern Services" she need helps now.
Talk to your parents about this. If the mother do nothing you have to get the rest of the family involved. Don't feel sorry about her mother, just call the authorities.
If you are afraid to call, then ask your parents to do it.
2007-02-03 15:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For someone who is obesessed with sex at 9...is not common unless they are getting sexually abused in some way. I am not saying that it is certain, but may be a possibility. First off, I would put a parental block on the porn. Secondly, I would go speak with her school psychologist or a teacher. They may be able to find the source of the problem and help her before it is too late.
2007-02-03 14:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet a psychiatrist, ask advice from people who know better.
Control how she uses the web, maybe by blocking porn web-sites and monitering what she surfs...there is a history button that allows you to know what she has been surfing...
Be the cool cousin so she wont shut down on you... if she talks about rape...you tell her how uncool that is... be the role model and show her the other part of life that is full of fun...she's nine...what do girls at nine do?
Get her interested in extra activities, stuff that can take her mind out of sex, get her new friends... types of friends where she'll need to "be in the group" and that means not talk about sex all the time...
Show her whats the other side of life, the childhood free life where sex isnt involved. explain to her the responsibilities and out comes of sex...she needs to know why sex is mainly a mature thing only...and maybe slow her down a bit on her needs...
She's not a freak, she just thinks too much... her mom should be involved and you can maybe pull her in by talking to her...
2007-02-03 14:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 16 & you told her mom & she's done nothing ,you need to get some other responsible adult involved before this little girl really get's into something that will hurt her. She's already psychologically messed up & some sort of intervention needs to be done soon. This is serious. Report it to her teacher or school counsellor & tell them that her mom knows but has done nothing. They will investigate & take it from there. It's not to get anyone in trouble. It's for the little girl's protection. She's already seen too much at her young age.
2007-02-03 14:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sandi Beach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but that side of the family you might want to stay away from, or be VERY careful when around. You have to wonder what people are around this child to make her think that way! But if you want to help then keep a positive influence in her life and don't give up. But sometimes you can't help. That is VERY important to know. You can't fix the world, took me 26 years to come to that realization, heck I could make WW1 my fault if you gave me enough time lol. Don't think it's your problem to fix. Some people are beyond help or understanding, mostly understaning, as much as it hurts me to say that. Make your choices carefully and make the best decision for YOU!
2007-02-03 14:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell someone who WILL care...porn sites for someone that young is illegal...tell child welfare to pay a visit and tell them what to look for...tell them what you've said here and get her some help...(sounds to me like shes been abused at some time, she may or may NOT remember it, depending on how old she was at the time....) she needs help...please get her some soon...
(grandparents, Dad, aunts, uncles...teachers, counselors...)
2007-02-03 14:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should contact a councelor. Also, the police would be useful because what she is doing is illegal! You should have the whole family sit down and talk about this problem. You should also tell her friends about it and I think she would stop because she knows that it wouls be bad for her friends to know(and the law)
2007-02-03 14:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by xocourtneyox412 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. this girl has some serious issues!!!!!! So does the mom if she is so careless about this!!!! have you ever thought about talking to the dad? Dads are like hella lot more strict than moms... usually... my dad is!!! lol
2007-02-03 14:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Katiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call childrens services anonymously immediately before she ends up pregnant, or worse, maybe she is being molested already by someone, this type of behavior is often associated with molestation at such a young age. good luck.
2007-02-03 14:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like her mom maybe the problem.
2007-02-03 14:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by mellijenk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋