what is the best way to get over someone? how do you deal? what are the best break-up songs to listen to?
2007-02-03 14:10:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just drink myself stupid and cry alone for a day or two while I listen to old country music backwards, that way I get my dog, my truck, my best friend and my girl back. it is what helps me get through life
2007-02-03 14:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I break up with someone. It helps me to remember that there are billions of people in the world. The other thing that helps is to make a list of all of the things that I knew would have made marriage (with the break up) a disaster. List everything that ever annoyed you, every rude comment...then when you feel yourself "missing" this person read the list. Last but not least, go get your hair done, get a facial and buy some cute clothes..it's very critical that you remember that you are a hot tamale!!!
2007-02-03 22:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by katiebug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know! lol Time time time is what it takes I guess. I was getting over my ex and thought about him once a day or less after 3 and a half months. Then a week ago I found out he has a new girlfriend and I feel like I'm reliving some of the break up. I definitely don't want to be with him, but I'm kinda jealous I guess. That now she is staying at his place and stuff.
Good luck! Cause even when I keep myself busy busy I still find time to think about it.
2007-02-03 22:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no best way.
However the best way not to let it bother you is to NOT listen to breakup music. Do something you like and just throw your entire self into it. If you like to draw, try to draw the biggest and best picture you can, do research and study technique. Or if you like reading, find a big thick book and spend your free time reading that.
The WORST thing you can do is stew over it, it'll cripple you emotionally if you obsess. So forgive and forget.
2007-02-03 22:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, it's hard but it's healthy. Get rid of anything physical that reminds you of him (papers, books, clothes, etc.) Delete his phone number off your cell, his screenname off your buddy list, say to yourself that you dumped him, he doesn't like you, and you will get over him - and accept it. Ask your friends to please not bring him up in front of you, stop yourself from getting excited if you think you're going to run into him, treat his existence like you would any regular person. In the meantime, find some gorgeous celebrity (should I suggest Hayden Christensen? <3) and fawn over him for awhile.
This should really help, it worked for me!
Break up songs: "Irreplaceable" - Beyonce
"Too Little, Too Late" - JoJo
2007-02-03 22:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be truthful I dont know. You don't deal just be. Oh and whatever you do don't listen to those love songs. Oh and have a good cry.
2007-02-03 22:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to get over someone quick, the best way is to go out not think about it, get a hobby, dont listen to country music, mostly rap.. PEACER
2007-02-03 22:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♠DistaUkr♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of someone you like before him listen to chis brown song say good-bye.eat some chocolate think about hot guys you see every day he might be the next one!
2007-02-03 22:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by neeika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Beonce's "Irreplaceable" and Sunshine Anderson's "Heard It all Before".
Take care of yourself, pamper yourself, hang out with friends and let them support you, watch some comedy movies.
2007-02-03 22:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by Renie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a really great break-up song is 'Leave the Peices' by The Wreckers. it will really get u thiniking.
2007-02-03 22:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by sweety_pie!! <3 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋