okay, i really did this unintentionally.
but this guy likes me and he know that i dont like him. and so he was like on AIM that maybe id like him if he got rid of his acne. and i dont not like him becasue of his looks i just dont like him, so anyway i said 'well, i dont think thats really going to change anything.' and he got really mad and signed off. so i kinda feel bad, but really i dont just care about looks and thats what i meant...so am i wrong for saying that?
2007-02-03 14:06:54 · 9 answers · asked by </3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw,. i hes my ex from three yrs ago
2007-02-03 14:08:41 · update #1
Nope, you were being as nice as possible and he should respect that.
2007-02-03 14:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you hurt his feelings. It's good that you were honest, but maybe give him more information, such as. . I know this maybe bothers you about your acne, but it's not at all about this. . I go for the connection I feel with someone. . and probably no matter what you did to change things, it wouldn't probably change anything for me...yes, you could have cusioned the blow with more information that you gave him..
2007-02-03 22:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by CHERI * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's review.
He was implying you're shallow and that you'd like him if his face cleared up.
You defended yourself, "nope, Sparky, I'm not into you based on the merits."
Sparky thereupon flounced off in a huff.
Poor Sparky. No, you were honest. He shouldn't be speculating to YOU about YOUR likes and dislikes if he doesn't want a reply.
Hope his face clears up though.
2007-02-03 22:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have but he seems a little too into you, like he's a creep or something, if you did it is not anything that you did it just means that he is a little bit too sensitive and it sounds like the boy has serious issues anyway! Good Luck! :)
2007-02-03 22:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that in some cultures acne is considered attractive. Its not, but maybe he will move overseas and stop bothering you.
2007-02-03 22:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ben Dover - Contributor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably took it the wrong way!!!! talk to him and see why he signed off. Maybe he wasn't really mad!!!!!!
2007-02-03 22:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by Katiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he just like you a whole lot. He will just have to get over it. Just tell him that yall can be friends.
2007-02-03 22:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Chris F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...well kinda. At least you told him the truth.
2007-02-03 22:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not wrong for saying that..... guys think that girls like them just cuz there looks... but most girls like them because of there personaility
2007-02-03 22:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by awsomehottierocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋