How do I get over her?

Question

What is the best way to get over my gf? It ought to be fun as I live now and want to keep it that way. I don't wanna sulk for another week and weep like a willow. lol

Answer 1

only time will heel the pain theres no easy way i'm affraid.time is the greatest healer in these situations (and others)..dunno why you split but is there a chance to get back with her if not then u gotta be strong and get on the best you can remembering the good times and bad times will all ways pop in ur head but when they fade then ur know ur getting over the pain.
love is a very powerfull word..

Answer 2

Dude, weep like a willow if you have to. I would rather you weep and cry and kick and scream and be ready for me than to hold on to that other chick when I am looking deep into those eyes!
So weep for another week or so and watch some comedy movies, hang out with friends, do something for yourself, get a massage or something like that.
Tell your buddies what you are going through and you need them to be there for some fun stuff to get you through this (if you guys are like that).
It will pass and you will be a smarter person for it and be able to get over the next one a little faster. You will live and learn. It will be o.k.

Answer 3

Keep busy, volunteer, help a friend out, just get so active that you don't have time to sit and sulk and dwell. Go running, lift weights, bake a cake. lol

Get some dvd's, comedies and laugh your butt off!!

Paint your room like a checkerboard! Then count the squares! ;-)

Take up knitting!! lol You'll never go without socks! ;-)

And last but not least, keep posting questions. It keeps you busy too and your pretty good at it!!

Answer 4

dude here is what you do. write this down.
1. if you are 21 or older go get some booze. if not 21 or older get someone who is to buy it for you.
2. call up some buddies
3. once you have called up some buddies, either have them come over and hang out with you and get tanked up or get a buzz going and then hit the clubs(again this is if you are 21 and up. if not just hang out with your buds)
4. if you are hangin around with your buddies, have them call up some girls, the sluttier the better.
5. if you are out at a club, look for the drunkest group of girls there
6. do everything that you can to hook up with one of the girls(looks don't matter cuz tonight you are in it for a grudge sex)
7. once you hook up with her(remember drunk is good, but no means no) have the dirtiest drunk sex you ever had
8. this is a helpful tip make sure that if you brought the girl home, or she never left your house, she leaves before sun up. if not they will want to talk and cuddle and get to know you. you are not looking for that tonight, it is all about you.
9. even better is if you went home with her, quietly leave without waking her and make your way back home. you know have a cool story to share with your friends and won't even remember whats her name for a few days.
10. in the event that you do not hook up with a girl, keep drinking and when you finally wake up the next day you will be so hung over that you won't think about her because everytime you try to form a complete thought the tiny marching band of monkeys will begin to play their school song in your head. this is quite painful so you will want to just lay there and wish the hurting will stop. either way you won't think about her for a while.
11. or you could just skip all of this and give it some time, eventually with every day that goes by it will hurt less.

Answer 5

The best way to get over someone is to keep busy..pick up a hobby or hang out with friends..go out to the movies..clubs..bowling..also take this time to meet new people :)

Answer 6

Take it from an old man. Just accept time heals and it will get a little better each week. Not accepting this makes it ten times worse.

Answer 7

tell her how you feel maybe she feels the same way or maybe you need to do something fun and that may help you to get over her or just maybe you need to sulk sometimes that is the best way you may actually get over her and it also gives you time to think...

Answer 8

I've answered this question too many times to too many people.
There isn't a proven method for getting over someone. It's different for everyone.

Answer 9

there are 4 things we should do when dealing with loss in our lives.... first .... eat well.... make good food choices at reasonable meal times... second... sleep... that means a solid 8 hours... third... exercise...and fourth socialize...
do those things and the pain will ease... also ...stop thinking about her now... replace those thoughts with something else...make a top ten list of things you always wanted to do and replace thoughts of her with something on your top ten....

Answer 10

You have to keep you mind busy with other things. You deff need a friend. I know I just went throu all of that. You have to do things that you like to do that dont remnind you of her.