Im 13 and Ive been goin out with my bf for 2 years and he just started getting involved with drugs. I try to tell him how i feel but then he is abusive. i love him so much and i dont wanna leave him what do i do?
2007-02-03 13:11:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girlfriend, I was hoping that you would be able to be smart enough to know this one on your own. You need to leave, & real quick & in a hurry like.This will do nothing if you stay. If you have already tried to tell him, it must mean that you are not that important to him, & he will only bring you down with him. Don't take this the wrong way, but you are only 13, & he may seem like the love of your life now, but in a few months, there will be a new love, & it only happens over & over like this, untill you really do fall in love. When you do you will feel the difference. It is not worth the loss that you will have in your life standing around waiting for him to chose you over drugs & his friends. The world could end tomorrow, & if that is to happen, you don't want to feel like you wasted a second on someone that didn't respect you enough to live a clean life. Trust me when I say this, MOVE ON NOW B-4 IT IS TOO LATE.
2007-02-03 13:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone no man is worth the abuse I been there and done that at the age of 16 I'm 22 now and would never deal with that again trust me when I say it only gets worse after all your only 13 that's to young to be so serious with a boy
2007-02-03 21:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really sorry about it but you just have to relieze that the "drugs" are only going to make him start getting abusive. drugs just mess with your entire personality so in the end he could end up being a different person really soon. it wont take long till they start to consume him. ive unfortunatly seen this before. he might even want you to join in along down the line. its gonna hurt, trust me i know. heartbreaking is the worst. im in it deep right now :(. but in the end nothing is worth the risk of you getting hurt.
2007-02-03 21:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Learning To Fly (again) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm.... if he abuses you, you need to leave him. You don't deserve someone who is involved in drugs AND abuses you! If you don't do something now, things will get really out of hand!!
2007-02-03 21:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by Katiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite the Bullet Love, and move on.
No sense winding up with a loser. (whch is likely to happen) You are still too young to be involve in that stuff. give him an ultimatum, Me or drugs
Good Luck Love
2007-02-03 21:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by Murray H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you keep trying and things are just going to get worst. His ways are really bad right now, this guy is capable to cut you, he doesn't respect you as a woman. A man who places his hand on a woman is a coward, and deserves to live the rest of his life alone.
get away from him, he'll mess up your life..
2007-02-03 21:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by Pedro S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him some help. You need to tell him he needs to choose between you and the drugs.
2007-02-03 21:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you know that its not right to be taking drugs. God you people you should know that you can kill your self with that stuff. If he doesnt understand then dump him for someone who doesnt do drugs and that will live much longer.
2007-02-03 21:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to the counseling center. Ask for some advise.
2007-02-03 21:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get him some help. Let him know you love him and want to help him and stick with him through this. If he doesnt want to change let him know that you cant stay with him and watch him kill himself.
Good luck.
2007-02-03 21:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋