Well my boyfriend thinks I like other guys. But I don't! I keep saying I love him to death and he just won't believe me! And he's been telling me that people have been treating him like crap, and his granma has cancer. And now he's not talkin to me. I need help I'm so heartbroken and I feel like crying...here's his pic...
http://vampirefreaks.com/picview.php?pic_id=15495940&user=--XxEmo_ChildxX--&uid=1794900&title=&c=1&x=2&d=&g=1&s=1&fid=0
2007-02-03 13:09:02 · 9 answers · asked by XxEmo_SweetheartxX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry girl, but if he is too arrogant to believe you I say beat him to the punch and dump him. He doesn't seem to be too secure with way he's acting. He should suck it up if people are mean to him and my grandma died of cancer a few months ago an not to sound heartless but he needs to move on. People get, get sick, and eventually everyone will die.
And this just my opinion but I don't think he looks extremely cute (or happy) in the picture....
sorry
2007-02-03 13:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Shelby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds lik he is ot very secure with himself ir your relationship. If he is being ike this--get out now!!! I had a boyfriend like this and I had the hardest time getting out because I was to worried about hurting his feelings but I was hurting my self in the long run. Life is too short to waste it in a situation that you are not 100% happy now.
2007-02-03 21:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by llisaisme80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could undsestand where he is coming from,, but you probibly didnt cheated on him.
i was the same to my boyfriend.
i acused him of liking the young ones and he was a big flirt..
he always complained about me to his family, mind you they still hate me. i lost my mother to breast cancer, and i needed some comfort, but he just went off.
i moved 5 mins away from him, and we where arguing alot.
i told him i just needed a night to myself, and he ran off to another girl and cheated on me.
now i dont have any trust in him what so ever.
if your boyfriend is insecure and saying these things, you must understand that he is have a real hard time and he dont know what to think about you and the situation in his life at the moment..
love is a very strong word and maybe he just dont know what it really means.
right now he obviously dont feel it, and he maybe putting all his anger on you, and it not nessearly you that he's hating at the moment, he hates the way things are going.
when my mother was dieing i was a reck, i didnt sleep, eat, and all i did was be hateful to the others around me, like my boyfriend.
to be honest you have to give him time, please do not smoother him in ''why arent you talking to me, why are you being this way, whats wrong'' please dont do that.
dont just think about your broken heart, take a moment and think about him and whats happening to him, he himself probibly feels like crying..... ever thought of that.
dealing with death in the family is tough, and if you truely love him like you say you do, then my got to wait it out, and be patient, remember it aint all about you .
im not tring to be critical, or mean im just saying how it is hun.
let him be, and when he is ready to talk to you he knows where you live, your phone number and how to use and get there.
give him his space, let him vent, he needs to heal.
ok hun
good luck
2007-02-03 21:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to trust you. Guess he is a difficult situation now cuz his grandma has cancer. Just stay by his side. Support him. He need your support. Good luck girl!
2007-02-03 21:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is feeling insecure and thinks because gramma is sick you will leave him when he is down and out. Just talk to him calmly and work things out. It sounds like you really care so talk first, life is too short to live with regret. Take care Heather
2007-02-03 21:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't make someone believe you love him. You can't prove it to his satisfaction. You can only be loving, speak with kind words, and be supportive and encouraging. Believing it is up to him.
2007-02-03 21:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep saying you love him.
2007-02-03 23:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
childish ... leave him!!
looking is normal.....touching is fun....all the way is best!!!
''happy girl'' is happy for a reason...she agrees with me.
2007-02-03 21:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by transvainia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your gonna be accused of it you might as well do it.
2007-02-03 21:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by Tljabgdvhj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋