I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years we recently have a baby and it seen like we are not in a relationship. We dont spend any time together and the sex is just horrible. When he touches me i just want to throw up. What do I do? Should I try and work things out or just give up on this relationship?????
2007-02-03 13:02:01 · 8 answers · asked by Ms. Kakes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you owe it to yourself, your boyfriend and your child to see if the relationship can work because it's not ideal for a child to grow up without both parents (nothing is really wrong though). If you cannot find that 'spark' in the relationship anymore, then I guess it would be in both you boyfriend and and your interest to break up. I suggest still being friends though as you both have a child to take care of.
2007-02-03 13:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kevon W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby will sometimes make you feel like that, it is pretty hard on an already shaky relationship. You need to try and reconnect and have some time away from the baby together. If things don't get any better after a while, seek counseling or end the relationship. Everyone deserves to be happy.
2007-02-03 21:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now you both have a baby to think about. I would say never stay in a relationship just because you have a child if the relationship is not working. You will never be happy and you will probably start arguing in front of the child. this will do harm to the child's mind.
2007-02-03 21:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by redfirecracker2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda felt like that after I had my last baby, I didnt want my husband to touch me or kiss me. I found that as the baby got older I got better. Seeing him interact with my kids being a father turned me on! oh STAY
2007-02-03 21:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by myvote01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave! You obvioulsly don't have any feelings for this guy anymore. If you dont then why are u still bothering? Get away from him and date some awesome guy!
2007-02-03 21:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave... you dont seem interested in the him or in the relationship anymore...
2007-02-03 21:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by I♥NY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay n give it moree time or just tok 2him it cant b dat bad avoiding it can ruin yur realtionship n yur childs too
2007-02-03 21:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex naked on the beach
2007-02-03 21:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋