Everybody seems to be SOOOO bleepin worried about the kids these days and how they are being neglected because they don't have but one playstation 2, and mommie and daddy didn't buy them a BMW for their first cars...Where the Bleep were all the bleeding hearts when my family was growing up back in the 70's? Heh, living with a pscho parent who threatened to burn the house around our ears didn't get social services involved, nor the police department...but the police did call in a priest for some reason..maybe to give us all our last rites before the ol man caught up with mama and the rest of us...
2007-02-03 12:49:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
JackBeaur, you are a smartazz mother aint you? Silverspoon up your tail pipe sideways or something?
2007-02-03 12:55:28 · update #1
and before you say anything..I know how to spell Bauer...
2007-02-03 12:56:17 · update #2
Athanasiu, I am not saying to err on the side of idiocy, which is what we see today with kids in their upbringing...seems to me though that people ain't got enough good sense to figure out where middle ground is..they either beat the hell out of their kids or let em run wild and call them "expressive". Both ways are BS. My parents weren't the 60's generation by the way...we are talking 1927 and 1935. I ain't dissing either of them, I recon they did the best they knew how, but dayum! I can't help but wonder if life would have been different if it wasn't spent being afraid to even go to sleep.
2007-02-03 13:00:38 · update #3
Freddy F, I agree with ya totally...I actually asked mother once why she didn't abort me, they had em back in the 70's...she replied no they didn't-I replied, well they did have rubbers!
2007-02-03 13:05:28 · update #4
Dez you are 21 freakin years old...what the hell do you think you know? I ain't saying that you might not have gone through some crap, but some have gone through more than is bein told...ever been sexually abused by a sibling? Ever been anally raped by a spouse? Ever been poisoned by the same spouse for money? Sounds like a cheap azz b grade soap opera...my freakin life...sometimes i feel like I am just warped and there ain't no fixin me.
2007-02-03 13:09:46 · update #5
ghy23, pain knows no age limit...when you go through life unable to process the pain, when you haven't dealt with how you felt when all this crap happened to start with, when suppressed feelings start coming back (whether you want them to or not) the same pain is there. If you have ever felt anything like this and have conquered it, then good for you...there are those of us who are not superhuman though..cut me and I bleed...the wound doesn't heal until the infection is released and the scab pulled off...ignoring it simply adds to the sickness.
2007-02-03 13:31:48 · update #6
Dez I am happy for you that you seem to get off on suffering and think it is beautiful..enjoy yourself by all means...
2007-02-03 13:34:42 · update #7
lol.. no one gave a rat's butt about me growing up... learn how to get over your suffering... accept it.. there are people out there who had/have it worse than you... be happy that youve had that experience and now you have wisdom.
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Dez you are 21 freakin years old...what the hell do you think you know? I ain't saying that you might not have gone through some crap, but some have gone through more than is bein told...ever been sexually abused by a sibling? Ever been anally raped by a spouse? Ever been poisoned by the same spouse for money? Sounds like a cheap azz b grade soap opera...my freakin life...sometimes i feel like I am just warped and there ain't no fixin me.
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yes i am 21 years old.... so? i THINK i know alot... not everything.. but i feel i am pretty well off thank you.
you dont gain wisdom from years.. but experiences..
oh and yes i know there are people out there who have suffered.. i wont deny that.. but what is wrong with suffering? its a part of life.. everyone does it.. some more than others... and honestly i believe suffering is a gift.. its a way to gain knowledge and experience..
and i HAVE been through alot and i dont see the need to keep crying over it. if i had to live my life again i would... suffering IS a gift... its hard.. but worth it. because of the experiences i have gone though i am who i am today and i love it. if i had it pampered (had a BMW as my first car) i wouldnt know everything that i do.. i thank god for my problems....
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Dez I am happy for you that you seem to get off on suffering and think it is beautiful..enjoy yourself by all means...
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hey if your going to dismiss everyone's responses why the heck do you post such a question in a PUBIC forum. you should know you are going to hear things you dont want to....
"get off". ****.. here i am answering YOUR question with thought.. and you make me seam like a freaking pervert...
stop being a cry baby.. i can _PROMISE_ you that if you keep up this attitude you will ALWAYS be a miserable stupid bastard... so have fun in your self-pity...
im happy for you that youve chosen to be another worthless depressed jerk. after all dont have too many in our society.... (yes i am being sarcastic...)
2007-02-03 12:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by Loathing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 09:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sh!t, I feel you. some people say i'm not worried about the stepkids because I don't cook meat for their dinner. the UFO family is vegetarian. I have cooked 1 chicken in my life. I wore gloves.
Ooo and sometimes I give them alfredo sauce from a jar *gasp*! This is just horror upon horrors that I use it from a jar instead of making it from scratch.
Edit: Dez is just a know-it-all kid. She is 21 now and can buy alcohol so she thinks she is grown and knows it all. I am dealing with the 18 yr old version of her, and believe me its not a pretty sight.
2007-02-03 13:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by UFO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because those children who grew up in the post WWII age (Baby-Boomers) were a bunch of spoiled sh*ts. Now that they're grown up with all their liberal tendencies and philosophy and bullsh*t, they want to give their children the childhood they wish they could have had. In the process, they're destroying Social Security and contributing to the overconsumerist nature of America, and conveniently setting up their children to be a bunch of p*ssywhipped little manginas who talk about their feelings too much. Way to go, 60's generation.
2007-02-03 12:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Athanasius 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I myself posed this question many times. Here is what I came up with: Nowadays (or so the theory goes) only people who want children have them. If you are not prepared to sacrifice your life's blood for them then there is no reason to have them. So don't have them. So it would seem a child who says to his parents: Why did you have me if you cannot afford me? I confess I myself would have no answer to that question.
Whereas before you had kids whether you wanted them or not.
2007-02-03 12:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are realizing just how important childhood is to forming a happy adult. They didn't realize that before, and so are over cautious now.
2007-02-03 12:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by anamaradancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were busy teaching other children how to use correct punctuation.
2007-02-03 12:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry you had a bad childhood.
2007-02-03 12:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jennie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who the bleepin' knows?
2007-02-03 12:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No,I'm doing good.
2007-02-03 12:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋