my mom thinks i take illegal drugs but i dont,am a good girl,i never tried any kind of drugs i dont even smoke cegrette...
lately i lost about 8kgs of my weight and u could see that easily but the only reason is coz am depressed,i told my mom that but she still thinks am drug taker,she only said it to me once to my face and i told her no but i know she still thinks that,she keep askin me if i need help with anythin,she keep askin me if am trouple with any thing,how can i prove her that am not a drug taker,plz help
2007-02-03 12:19:19 · 36 answers · asked by stang girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sit down and tell her that it hurts your feelings that you are being accused of such ridiculous issues that you do not take part in. let her know that if she really fears your "drug use" then you can take periodic drug tests (oh well, you pee in a cup once a month right? so worth the piece of midn that your mom can trust you again!) just to prove her wrong. she is seeing all of the accusations of teens online and on tv and hears horror stories and just worries about you, some kids' moms dont give a crap about their kids, and HELP them do drugs. your mom is just worried and it's hard to trust kids because they are led to believe that the child always lies......dont worry if you talk to her and convince her you have nothing to hide and let her know you will take a test periodically to prove it, she should get off your back! good luck!
2007-02-03 12:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by overwhelmed85 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I guess the best thing you could do if you're really not taking drugs is sit her down and explain whats going on with you. If you both stay calm and listen to one another hopefully you can find a dialouge and clear the air. If that doesnt work there may not be much else you can do aside from give her time to see that you're being honest. :( I hope it works out. If push comes to shove....ask her to pay for a drug test.
2007-02-03 12:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by Chris J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can, tell her you would like to talk to her about something that has really been bothering you.
First of all, tell her that you feel depressed, and why you feel depressed, or how it is effecting you life. Tell her how her thinking you takes drugs makes you feel, and even offer to take a drug test if she doesn't believe you. Then if she makes you go through with it, don't eat anything with poppy seeds in it or you will test positive for opium.
2007-02-03 12:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately the only thing you can do is keep telling her you are not taking drugs, and hope that she trusts you. Try sitting down with her, telling her how you feel, and reassuring her. Tell her about the depression, she can help you. Address the issue directly, and it will be resolved. Don't just wait for her to ask you, you tell her exactly what is going on.
I hope that helps, good luck
2007-02-03 12:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by iwalkalonelyroad 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
personally, i think you need to spend alil time with mom. Because sounds like she either really doesn't know you or you smokin something! it's not strange, we all grow and because of that we at times tend to grow apart if we're not spending time together. sometimes time gets away from us, specailly when we are doing something we enjoy. try taking mom on a date somewhere you enjoy. then ask her out again,this time try going somewhere she likes. this you both get to meet who you are today and the things you enjoy. show her where your time goes,if you're not high on drugs what are you focused on?plus 3d pictures work better then words. i'd know, i rap and half of the people that listen to my music listen because they see the truth in my life i just use music as a way to express how i feel, just intertwine my life with a smooth beat, unstopable if you ask me. but try it, how could you lose.
2007-02-03 12:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by BLESSED352 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "Mom, I'm not using drugs, I'm pregnant!" or "I'm gay!"
Then laugh, and tell her that you are honestly not on drugs, but that you have been feeling sad lately. Explain to her why you think you are depressed (if you have an idea) and ask her if she can help you.
2007-02-03 13:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a at home drug test for her to see.
2007-02-03 12:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a seat and ask her approximately it. The worst ingredient is that she might desire to assert sure. Then ask her to take you to a drug keep, %. up a house drug attempt and take it to teach her. think of approximately it, the superb option you you already think of she thinks you're on drugs, so your paranoia with reference to the issue is in basic terms going to worsen. in case you do no longer desire that twisting intestine feeling of your parents no longer trusting you; you may desire to take a seat down together with her and have a communique together with her. wish ya the better of success mate. right it relatively is the final ingredient nonetheless, as long as you be attentive to you're no longer doing drugs, you won't be able to be mendacity or incorrect, so which you will continually be on the severe highway. in basic terms ask.
2016-10-01 09:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her you are not doing anything wrong. Tell her to buy a drug test and take it at home. I am sure your mother is looking out for you she is just not doing it the right way. Good luck
2007-02-03 12:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by K J 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to the local drug center and get a free drug screening. Show her the results. Many employers require this anyhow.
2007-02-03 12:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋