Lets say you met a great girl, who you completely clicked with, was fun, interesting, someone who made you feel alive, and you began to really care about her. What would you do if, when you came to have sex, she was terrible in bed? just not a sexual person who didnt have an interest in pleasing you or yourself. If you loved her, would you stay with her, cheat on her or dump her?
2007-02-03 12:01:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No its not me! i love sex ;-) But talking to guys, it seems that sex is one of, if not the most important part of their relationships... maybe cause were 17/18 though...
2007-02-03 12:12:58 · update #1
I hate to break it to you, but all of the other stuff you mentioned before getting to the sex part is not really important to guys. If the sex is bad, the guys will leave because all they care about is sex and food. Despite what most women believe, sex is a big part of a successful relationship. I would say that for guys, it's 99% of what a relationship is all about.
2007-02-03 12:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋
OK take it you genuinely like this girl? Everyone needs an apprenticeship. Discuss sex with her, don't critiscise her but sound out her feelings and any (whatever slight experience she's had). If sex is a no no with her and as in most males extremely important then alas it's the end of the road. If she admits to inexperience then you sound a good teacher.....go for it!!
2007-02-03 14:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like your the chick in this...... and if so you say your not a totally sexual person? well let me tell you that if he was doing it right you would be!
i reckon get a few blue films out an the place to your self then mimick what you see lol
or watch one alone so you can show him a few tricks and you need to show him what feels good as well if he is that age so he knows what he is doing
i got with a 21 yr old chick when i was 16 or 17 and my god she showed me things i didnt know and all was great after that
stick it out you may as well learn together eh
2007-02-03 12:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sean C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you look why men leave their wives or girlfriends, it is because of no sex life. If you meet a married guy that says his relationship is bad he will state this as one of the reasons. There are things "she" can do to make this part of her life better. She may have an imbalance of hormones that they now have medicines to fix.
2007-02-05 05:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it behooves her to learn. To me, if she isn't willing to try and provide pleasure, then she really doesn't want to give herself to the relationship. Of course, it has to go both ways... Sex is about both people enjoying it.
My guess, however, is that the girl in question has most likely been subjected to some sort of sexual abuse while a child...
2007-02-03 12:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was as good as you say she is I would keep her for about 20 seconds then dump her.
Nobody that f.....g marvelous is **** in bed.
And As for crap in bed like how crap.
More details required.
Big hole,small hole,counter sunk with a taper or just ugly betty.
Difficult for me to answer this truthfuly.
I don't know, maybe i could put up with no action for a while.
On the other hand maybe not.
2007-02-03 12:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of its no ones fault the first thing you gotta do is voice your opinion let her no how u feel tell her u would like change in the bed room talk to her 1st see what she likes and see what u like. she may be giving u lots of sex best she thinks its what u want and if she was in a abussive relationship she could be scared of that and not telling u. but your first step is to talk to her get your feeling out there try and get some answers to why she wants it th way she does and u can grow from there
2016-05-24 00:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stayed with her for several months and things got better for us after we talked and worked on what made it work for us in bed. I would have kept it up but she moved back home to New Mexico without me...It is all about communication and caring for each others feelings. If you don't find that he feels that way then cut your losses and find someone you deserve!
2007-02-03 12:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by utahbugtussel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If was not interested no point.
If she was simply clueless...
Well school girl and teacher outfits come to mind with suitable punishments for being naughty in class.
2007-02-03 14:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought for one second that it could be you that is crap in bed?
You might be doing things wrong, or not good enough! so dont start ranting on about how crap ur gf maybe in bed, think reasons why she might not be enjoying it.
2007-02-03 12:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by katie_orlandoarogorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋