I think it's not right to try to try and pick up a girl while she's working, such as cashiers for example. I just find myself interacting with more and more really pretty cashiers and it kills me. I just want to hear some opinions and possibly reaffirm mine.
2007-02-03 11:41:31 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It may not be appropriate but what the hell. If she seem receptive to your flirtation the give it shot. Before I got married (I am now a faithful husband) I would carry a piece of paper with my phone number written on it, don't use a businesses card, then when I would meet a interesting woman I would pretend to write my number down quickly and hand it to her. That way she can toss it in the trash and call u a pig then get it out later and give you a call.
2007-02-03 11:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by RUDOLPH M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depending on how you do it, it can be quite charming!
1) Don't hold up her next transaction in the process - that could get her in trouble. Buy lots of little items to give yourself adaquate time to ask.
2) Start slow - ask her if you could but her coffee on her break. If she says no, it's no. If she says yes, congrats!
3) Make sure you've gone through her till more than once, so that she may recognize you. You'll be more likely to get a yes if there is familiarity! Just don't be buying condoms or porn magazines or she'll think you're creepy.
4) Engage her in conversation when you go through her till. If it's a store you could buy a gift at (Wal-Mart), buy a pin/blouse/perfume for your mom or sister for a birthday and ask her opinion if it's a good gift. If you have a sister her size, buy something for the sister and ask the cashier if it is in good taste or correct size - you'll seem sweet. Better yet, if there is a charity event coming up in your community like a toy run for underprivilidged kids, buy one and ask if it's a hot item. Be sure to drop in what it's for and maybe mention you've been out of the toy playing loop for a while and you're not sure what's popular!
5) Go for it. I worked at a Wal-Mart and had this happen a few times. Done right, it can work out well for you! The best ask out I received was a simple "We seem to meet like this a lot. Can I take you out for a coffee next time?". Sweet, charming, nonassuming, and confident - it worked! Good luck!
2007-02-03 12:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Baby boy arrived March 7th! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
any where you go that women are present is a good place to pick up girls and I mean any where just say hi and start talkin ask a lot of questions and dont interupt. listen and be smooth to any women at all time syou will be a chick magnet
2016-05-24 00:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not really appropriate as its could get her in trouble, and it also could embarrass her, but if you think you really like these girls you could quietly ask her when she has a break, if she is interested she will tell you like that you could grab some coffee and that would give u a chance to speak to her without a queue of people behind you waiting to be served. if she doesn't tell you when her next break is ...well u get the hint..... ;)
2007-02-03 11:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah-Ashleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is the object of picking her up so she can reach a high shelf or change a light bulb or something like that. If so, and it's okay with her, then by all means. Play Sir Gallahad.
2007-02-03 11:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ frosty ♫ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it's not. She's working and you could get her into trouble with her boss,even fired for giving a customer the wrong change. Before work,or after work. Never during.
2007-02-04 02:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's inappropriate to linger and flirt with her. But, it could be OK to make ONE flirtatious comment and then slip her your number. and then leave. It's up to her to respond or not. She has a job to do and could get into trouble if you're hanging around too much.
2007-02-03 13:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by TyrusB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to flirt of you're the only one in line and she doesnt seem like she's busy and trying to leave the register to work.
2007-02-03 11:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by auntnebakenezer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how I met my husband, I was waitressing and he asked me out to a basketball game.
2007-02-03 14:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it just holds up the lines and people are waiting for their happy meals.
Save your pimping for your own time and stalk her until her shift ends.
2007-02-03 11:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by brad_left_jenn_for_me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋