The girl I loved was very caring and passionate then out of the blue she suddenly stop showing these feelings for me,Said she dont love me any more then broke up with me.
The reason behind this is she had a father who abonded her and is scared of commitment cuz she taught it was getting too serious.
Should a still go after or her or let it go.
I really love her...
2007-02-03 11:31:19 · 17 answers · asked by That_Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go after her. Prove to her that you are not like her father and if you really love her, never let her go!
2007-02-03 11:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isnt attracted to you anymore. You either became too needy or are doing/saying something that is causing this.
women give all sorts of logical reasons (from explaining how it could never work to saying how the two of you are from 2 entirely different planets to saying how great a guy you are) when in fact they are not as emotionally attracted to you right now as they once were. if this is a girl you truly care for you need to realise that, give her some space, start thinking positive and get on with your life. she'll come to you.
2007-02-03 11:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by bitter_moon_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't abandon her! Don't do the same stupid thing her dad did to her. That will make things worse for her. But if she doesn't want to have any comittment with you right now, don't push it, that will just make her clam up. Be the shouler for her to cry on, say: "I understand that you don't want comittment right now, but if there is anything that you would like to talk about, I'm just a phone call away. An whatever you say to me is just between you and I. Hopefully you can understand that i still love you."
That's what i would want for me if this happened to me. If you care about this girl, you better show it.
2007-02-03 11:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard because you cant really make a person love you. I dont think that you should completely abandon her. But I also know how it feels to want to be with someone so bad. It may hurt but maybe she needs time to be away from you, to really know what she wants. If she really loves you, she would really want to be with you. Also you have to understand that you cant change people. She is going to have to find a way to change herself. If she dosent find peace with commitment issues, then she may never want to be with you and your going to have to come with peace with that. Remember there soo many other girls out there that will love you and think your awesome. It sucks but you have to move on. Good luck.
2007-02-03 11:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i woud give her a week or so then tell her the truth & how u feel, tell her that life is too short to be miserable & alone & she needs to stop punishing herself & let the love into her life if it dont work give it more time & tell her u will wait for her, BUT u can still keep an eye out for othersif she wont budge
2007-02-03 11:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it... but sounds like she's going through some tough stuff... probably needs time alone to work it out and grow as an individual... Sometimes it's better to get through something on your own because if you stay in a relationship while going through something you get labeled as having "issues."
2007-02-03 11:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and talk with her and tell her how you really feel and if she feels the same way she needs to get over her fear and go for what is there and if she still feels the same way tell her you will be there for her until she is ready to be in a realtionship and be serious.
2007-02-03 11:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, you need to let go. If someone doesn't want to be with you it may be for the best of you . Just learn from the experience and find what your self instead feeling like you need someone to be happy. Let her be.
2007-02-03 11:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by telltonieroberts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she means so much to you go talk to her and tell her how you feel. i don't believe that people can flip a switch and said they don't love you.People just can't turn on and off love like a light switch.
2007-02-03 11:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the hint, let her go. Ignore her completely, if she wants you, she'll come back.
Until she does, go out with others. . .
2007-02-03 11:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Icky Vicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋