Help, I'm all out of romantic Ideas to do for my husband...I need more ideas...?

Question

I've used everything that I can think of x 2. All from planning a big birthday bash to writing a sweet letter. I've done the dinners and the picnics and the dressing up in outfits, I'm all out of ideas and I need some new ideas. Please help!!! I have v-day coming up and his 25th Birthday. Oh and we live in Okinawa Japan, so we don't have all the cool places that people might say to go to. I'm looking for stuff I can do at home or for cheep...not like going out to a place...sweet cute stuff...

Guys, what could a girl do that would really make you think she was the best!!! (plz I need to hear from adalt men, not boys who just want sex)

He loves to skydive, but I cant see myself ever doing it. But we are in Japan no skydiving here..(my husband is in the Air Force, its a good branch)

lohrewoks: OMG I love the door idea...I'm so doing that for V-Day this year!!! Thanks sooo much!!!

I just want you all to know, that we have been dating since I was 17 and married since i was 20. I'm now 22. I've been doing cute stuff for him ALL the time, at least once a week if not more...I'm just running out of ideas and need some new stuff. I can get a little idea and it turns into 100 different ideas. So just fro the few good replys I got here I already have lots of ideas...thanks to everything.

Also, the spark is still here with us, I just love making him smile. We can still talk for hours and he will always be my best friend. We love spending time togeather. We come home from work, make dinner togeather eat it at the table why we talk about our day and then cuddle and play cards and some times watch movies, but we would rather spend time playing cards or a game. Then we always go to bed togeather..we have a GREAT marrage. I just like doing cute stuff :P

Answer 1

Well, I'm a female but will tell you about what I did one year for Valentines Day. We were very poor so I went to our local supermarket and asked the butcher or deli (forget which one) for a length of white butcher paper. About 5 feet. They gave it to me for free. I wrote on it (huge letters) To the BEST HUSBAND IN THE WORLD!! LOVE, XXX and decorated it with hearts etc. Then I hung it up on the front door so he could see it as he pulled in the driveway. He loved it.

Something else to do, next time you take a shower and the mirror is all steamed up, write a message on it. Then next time HE takes a shower, it will show up. Magical huh?

Answer 2

Wow, Christina, usually I see this question asked from men and not women. Well, what was it that gave you both that initial spark? I am talking about mental intimacy. Romance can start or restart from a conversation. If other things you've tried didn't work in the past and if there is good healthy conversation between you two, then there could be some type of barrier you feel is there. Have his actions changed or are you imaginating them. This question can cover a vast area of instances. Try conversation first, if you don't feel anything leading from there then repost the question. By the way, why do you feel like that in the first place?

Answer 3

I made my guy a coupon book one time for V-day. Like the ones you can buy in stores, but personalized. I had coupons for things like back massages, homemade dinners, movie of his choice (even if it's one you would never ever want to see), and some adult fun too ;). Of course, make sure the last coupon in the book is for "all your love!"

Answer 4

Adult men just want sex too. Meet him at the front door naked when he gets home from work and let him have his way with you. Best present in the world for most men.

Answer 5

go sky diving with him

now thats awesome and fun!