Okay so theres this guy, and hes really really nice. My twin sister went out with him but like shes so shy and she really wasnt close to him, so they ended up breaking up. But i really like him, and think he likes me too because we had cuddled together at this party and talked a lot with each other. But before that he liked someone else, and i think it was justa crush and the girl he liked def doesnt like him. So idk if i should go out with him or not?
2007-02-03 11:12:39 · 16 answers · asked by ugh. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's unattached, you're unattached, no reason why the two of you shouldn't get together and check the fit.
Good luck!
2007-02-03 11:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with going out with people, supervised, and if they aren't tied to someone else, since you all seem like you're not marriage age.
I dont understand where you say your sister went out with him and they broke up? Does going out with someone, in your estimation constitute being a couple? Any cuddling suggests more things will happen and you sound too young for that. So I suggest you just go out with the girls untill such time as you earn your own income.
2007-02-03 19:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you listen to nothing else please hear this voice of regret. Pass on this poser. You won't be with him long anyway. Your sister will be your sister for the rest of your life.
I got the girl when I was around your age. My twin brother now lives on the other side of the country and we haven't spoken a word to each other in over five years. She was SO, So, so not worth it.
2007-02-03 19:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is an unwritten rule. You don't date your sister's ex or your that of your friends. It just shows respect. There are plenty of guys out there. Not worth hurting family relationships.
2007-02-03 19:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by lavenderbluelassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to my sister first and see how she feels about you dating him. If she didn't really care then I would go for it.
2007-02-03 19:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by tryin'2help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your sister and loosen her up a bit, then make this boys life and do him with your sister, rock his world!!
2007-02-03 19:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should make sure ur twin does not like him still and ask her if she will be ok if u went out w/ him. if she says its ok then go for him
2007-02-03 19:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by in luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your sister about it but if she's not okay with it at all then back off.
2007-02-03 19:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask your sister because if you feel your not shorethen it sounds like your not doing the right thing but if you ask your sister if she minds if you go uot with him then it will make sence, and you will get the right answer.
2007-02-03 19:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just see how youe sis feels about it. You don't want to fight over a guy with your sister.
2007-02-03 19:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by toothfairy.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋