its been over 6 months now with ease and there have been quite a lot of women since im only 25 but i just dont feel like being with some one full time. Some times I do but then when i start with a girl its just as quickly over?i dont think about my ex any more either?She cheated on me twice and all sorts of other things lies and deceit etc
2007-02-03 11:11:30 · 11 answers · asked by Sean C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's the big rush???? I have just split with my man at the age of 32 and am in no rush to find my soul mate. It will happen when it happens and until then I intend to enjoy every second of looking. At 25 I would suggest that you stop focusing on long term relationships and concentrate on finding lots of new friends and having fun. Love always creeps up on you when you least expect it, never when you are looking for it.
2007-02-03 11:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by kittycymraeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. Honestly, I think after a bad break up, you should have 3 months of time to yourself, start seeing people (when you're ready, if you're not ready at 3 months, then wait, if you're ready before that, go for it!) just to get in the game again, and then down the road, even if it's a year, you'll meet someone you're interested in and want to give it a shot.
I had a VERY VERY bad break up... I was depressed, miserable, couldn't eat for 3 months... It was bad... I got over it at about 3 months, but for some reason, I know it sounds crazy, but I carried all of this anger around for 2 years- still thinking about it constantly. And then I looked to my left, and this man walked in the door, and I swear on my life, I forgot my ex right then and there... And fell very much in love...
2007-02-03 11:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
six months is a drop in the ocean you have to work things out first or you will take all the bad feelings into your new relationship just spend some time alone not dating anyone and get to grips with what happened write down all your feelings think about what went wrong then put it to rest then you will be in the frame of mind to move on and find someone new
2007-02-03 11:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by top cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ur ready mate u will know when the time is right, please dont go out with girls for the sake of it, as a female myself i can tell u its rather hurtful. maybe u shuld have a break for now and hang out with the lads give urself time and space to get over it! i know what its like and i split with my husband 3 years ago and i cant stand him but i couldnt even face another relationship
2007-02-03 11:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Karen Roe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just carrie on going out and having fun, you will know when you have met "the one" it will hit you like a thunderbolt. you are only young, plenty of time yet just enjoy life instead of thinking that you must be in a relationship, it will happen when it happens, good luck
2007-02-03 11:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by pu55y perfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit just look at Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton they married three times.
2007-02-03 11:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by sarell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and meet a lot of people. If it begins as quickly as it ends, try and figure out why that is.
2007-02-03 11:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow. One day you'll meet someone who deserves you. The very best of luck
2007-02-03 11:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's more a case of the right person than the right time.
chill out.
2007-02-03 11:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not rush into anything, take your time if you don't you will only be taking your baggage into your next experience
2007-02-03 11:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋