Well, there is this guy named dustin and at the beggining of the year he gave me his number and told me to call him. I never did but last Monday he asked me out and i said yes, because i have liked him for a really long time. And so on wednesday he called my friend kelsey and told her that he couldnt go out with me anymore because he doesnt know anything about me and the only reason he asked me out was because he thought I was really "hot" and really nice. We only kissed once so it couldnt be that. What did I do to make him break up with me? Because after two days, it has to be more than just "i dont know anything about you" right? Why doesnt he wanna go out with me anymore?
2007-02-03 11:06:34 · 14 answers · asked by kaileykaileykaiey. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He found someone better.
2007-02-03 11:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Abu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could be he liked the way you looked when he meet you but didn't continue to feel the spark when he was on a date with you.
Could be that since he gave you his number and you didn't call he is getting even by asking you out then turning you down.
If you want to know if there is more ask him. Since there is nothing but one date between you, let it go and move on.
Doesn't sound like a case were someone did something wrong so much as after the first date one of the people involved in this case the guy didn't feel the necessary spark or interest to pursue it.
2007-02-03 19:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by nowment 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, this is how it goes sometimes. Don't drive yourself crazy trying to figure out why he did what he did. You said it yourself 2 days isn't long enough for you to have done something wrong so just forget about it.
Also, he didn't break up with you. Going out once and kissing once really doesn't add up to a relationship. You both went out on a date and you both just didn't like each other in the same way. It happens...move on. Don't give this guy anymore of your brain power.
2007-02-03 19:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by NYGirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He sounds immature and not worth your time. If he didn't respect you enough to call you directly and tell you his concerns, what does that say about him? Don't waste your time on someone who obviously is a "player". I don't know how old you are but trust me, guys like this don't deserve you. I advise you to read a book called "He's Just Not That Into You". It's a real eye opener. Make yourself unavailable and stay busy. He most likely wanted to see if he could get you to go out with him, see how far he could go and then lost interest. SOOOO not worth your time and effort.
2007-02-03 19:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many reasons, maybe he felt there was not anything in common. Or maybe he was on the break with another girl and have kissed and made up. If it was just a 2 day affair. I know sucks but look else where.
2007-02-03 19:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its is one of 2 things either he got scared as he really likes you and freaked out or you were a bit of a challenge as you are hot and he's a jerk and just wanted to see is he could get you.. Hopefully it isn't that but either way he sounds think trouble he is already upsetting you and you've only been together 2 days!!!!!!!! just forget about him honest. good luck
2007-02-03 19:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by Eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wasn't ready. if u watched Princess Diaries 2 and saw that Mia wasn't ready to get married. And probably if Ur not that good in sports he might not like that. boys would like any girl that is hot, nice, and and athletic.
2007-02-03 19:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by BriAna.M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats actually a GOOD reason to break it off with someone. Why dont you try to get to know him? You may change your mind.
2007-02-03 19:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by Katey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dumb jerk!! he's a jerk n it's so obvious. he said he ask u out cuz ur hot. so maybe dats y. mayeb he didnt really like u at all. wow. being hot can sumtimes be a bad thing. n i always wish i was hot.
2007-02-03 19:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but maybe he likes your friend or someone else. You should have called him when you had the chance (especially if you liked him so much!).
2007-02-03 19:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he didn't spend enough time getting to know you, so if it's that, it's his fault anyway... I'd say he just doesn't want a g/f or he likes somebody else... b/c that was a terrible excuse.
2007-02-03 19:10:22 · answer #11 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋