How can I make this choice? Here are the three descriptions. You can tell me who you think the best choice, that would be good, but I really just want advice on choosing. If you tell me hich guy, it would help to comment or tell why.
guy #1 - nice guy most of the time. he`s definitely not shy and jokes around a lot. He doesn`t get the best grades. He`s not stupid he just doesn`t try hard enough. He flirts with a ton of different girls. He plays football and he`s really cute.
guy #2 - Really quiet when he`s not around his friends. He used to get A`s until he started hanging out with certain people, but he`s still a B/C student. He`s really nice. Nothing great about his appearance, he`s just okay. He`s not my usual type AT ALL.
guy #3 - The "I don`t take any ****" type. Really tough guy type thing. He doesn`t get the best grades, he checks girls out a lot. He`s a jerk, I`ll admit, but that`s usually my type. He`s pretty hot.
Thanks.
2007-02-03 10:55:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are telling me yes or no for #1, 2, or 3, please tell me why you think that!!!
2007-02-03 10:56:42 · update #1
Depends on what kind of a relationship you're looking for. #1 sounds best if you're looking for a fun time. But perhaps if you're looking for a more serious/long term relationship, #2 may be better. He seems more the dependable steadfast type.
Also, I'd steer clear of #3. He sounds like the kinid of person people regret getting involved with
2007-02-03 11:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if it were me, I would hold out for a winner to come along. Problems I see from your descriptions:
1) if he is a nice guy most of the time that means he is not a nice guy some of the time. I would look for a guy who is nice period. Also wouldn't want to be with someone who is always flirting with everyone.
2) Might be a good guy, but it sounds like he is compromising himself with his new friends and may be headed for trouble. It doesn't really say enough here to know if he would be a good choice or not. However, I wouldn't want to be with someone I didn't find attractive.
3) These guys are wastes of time. Their lives go nowhere. They end up working crappy jobs, unhappy with their lives and don't see what they did wrong. Plus guys who are hot in high school usually aren't at all a few years down the road. Then they have nothing going for them: no looks, no brains, no interesting work, no financial security, no commitment to the relationship (if he is constantly checking out other girls that is a sign).
If forced to choose, I would say go for the nicest one. However, it sounds like you have a pretty good head on your shoulders. Hold out for a more suitable guy to come along.
2007-02-03 19:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by M L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes for guy #2. Opposites usually attract. Most of the time we are looking for someone who is our type, and that right person is usally the opposite of what we are looking at. Maybe you can help him try to do better with his grades. Also, sounds like he won't be upsetting you later on by being a flirt with other girls.
2007-02-03 19:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by snowbody 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though #1&3 are cute/hot if theyre checking out alot of girls then theyre really not good choices. But if #2 is not your type then he isnt going to be a good choice either but he sounds like hed be more faithful then the other two.
If I were you Id be friends with the three guys and start meeting some new guys. good luck.
2007-02-03 19:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I would pick #2, because #1 sounds like he could be the type who has girlfriends, but doesn't really want them... he changes g/fs a lot (my impression).. and plus he's flirty and you'll probably get jealous when he doesn't stop flirting. #3 sounds like an a.ss, and you don't want him as a b/f, b/c I've had plenty of these guys for b/fs and it's no fun because you're always worrying about him and chasing after him b/c he's a "tough" guy... but yeah, I'd go for #2 b/c you say he's really nice..
2007-02-03 19:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree w/ bella girl
u say #2 isn't really ur type
u say #3 is a jerk
and #1idk u say he flirts w/ a bunch of girls so i don't think tht would be good 4 a relationship or not.
y r u choosin between these 3 n/e ways?
2007-02-03 19:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Will's Baby~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no to all three. why??? they all sound like idiots. sounds like you need to find someone else. if i had to choose i would go foe guy 2 coz he sounds like the only descent one he might smarten his act if he has you to guide him in the right direction.. dont go for the bad boys the break you heart. it also depends on who you feel most towards..
2007-02-03 19:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by tambat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's you answer: ask yourself WHY you NEED to pick a guy. Is this absolutely crucial? No.
2007-02-03 19:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by ourxtrees 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
truly, i dont think any of these guys are great, but if i had to choose it would be guy #1
2007-02-03 19:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by =] 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think either of them sound right for ya. But #! comes closest
2007-02-03 18:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by bella_girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋