I am scared to have sex with my girl friend for fear that she may refuse
2007-02-03 10:42:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normally not.
Some (very few) do for fun only and not in serious relationship.
After a long meaningful relation and when it becomes almost like been married sex may come spontaneously.
Do not ever propose for sex to your girlfriend.
2007-02-03 12:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. I know how it feels because I've been over to Asia a few times and they treated me the same way. The only reason why they treat you that way is because you're white. You're not a ****. That culture just really adores white people. At home, I am very average and not that attractive but when I was in Asia, they were trying to take pictures of me and thought I was beautiful. There's not much you can do... In places like that, they have other issues to worry about and you'll find that nearly everyone will treat you the same way... You can either ignore them or go back to the US. I think you should go back because it seems that you're not handling it well at all.
2016-05-24 00:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ethel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello ranoo,
I really don't know how young people in India are, ranoo. I've heard that their families arrange their fiancé's for them as early as their early teens, but that might not be true anymore.
Here in the USA. Usually after a few dates, you can get an idea how close you are going to be able to get. You may have to learn to talk to your girlfriend to see if she is even interested in you that way. She might just want you for the free meal and a movie.
Finally, you must grow a pair, ranoo. The man must be accustomed to some rejection if he is ever going to have sex. Every once and awhile you will meet a girl who is interested in having sex too.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2007-02-03 10:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude........I was thinking why you were so into this topic. Now i know. See if you love and respect the girl ur with u will not need to be physical with her to feel close to her. If u are just curious and want to experience sex then i have to tell u this............get married to her quick. If ur still in your teens then i suggest waiting. Plus imagine if u get married to another girl and not her and ur wife is not a virgin becoz she had a bf like u who pushed her into sex how wud u feel? and how wud ur gf's husband feel? See it will lead to problems later on. and even if the two of u do end up getting married then it wont be special the first night get wat i mean. Hold on boy. Wait for marriage and all will be fine.
2007-02-03 16:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Duski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO
If you want sex before marriage, she will consider you to be in the relationship for sex not for love.
2007-02-03 10:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by curious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make out with her and see where it goes. Don't just whip it out and say let's go, then she will probably refuse.
2007-02-03 10:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by toothfairy.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indian culture against it. they do sex only after marriage. don,t try more
2007-02-03 11:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon couple to couple, you ask your girl about this and if she agrees then go ahead else don't force her.
2007-02-06 23:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know about over there.
But, Talk to her and see how she feels.
Good Luck
2007-02-03 10:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i belive sex before marriage is taboo in india
2007-02-03 10:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by undercovernudist 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋