WELL iM 13 AND MY BABY B0Y iS DUE iN APRIL. iM NOT SHURE iF i SHOULD STAY iN SCHOOL OR NOT. iV BEEN iN SCHOOL ALL THROUGH MY PREGNANCY BUT iM NOT SHURE WHAT WOULD BE BEST. MY TiA (AUNT) iS WiLLiNG T0 GiVE ME A JOB. AND MY BOY FRIEND JOSE QUiT SCHOOL TO WORK,,, SHOULD i TOO?
2007-02-03 10:39:52 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Stay in school, it will be hard, but in the long run worth it. You will go from job to job if you are not educated, no real career. You and your baby deserve more.
Hasn't your schools counciler talked to you about the available programs? Most high schools have day care available to mothers now, even if yours if offsite there should be something in place.
2007-02-03 10:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
You should find other ways to boost your confidence. Don't you think that everyone at your school would notice that you had a nose job? Then, they'd have a whole new set of things to say. You should leave it just the way it is. It's sad that your classmates are insensitive and immature. They wouldn't like it if someone constantly pointed out something that was different about them. Your nose makes you unique. I am sure you are very pretty, even without the nose job. Don't focus on your nose just because of what someone else says. You will find a million people out there who could care less about your nose, and some will even find it cute. And, as for a nose job hurting, well, have you ever watched one of those plastic surgery shows? Just watching one makes my nose hurt, and I imagine that as with any surgery, it's very painful. As you get older, you'll grow into your nose and be grateful that you left it just as God made it. Puberty is tough without the added stress of people being immature.
2016-05-24 00:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ethel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't. Your going to high school in just a little while, it will be hard work. On the weekends you can work at your tia's job if she lets you but if she doesn't then its gonna have to be the weekdays. From school go to work, in between eat, from work go home and do homework. Its gonna be hard, but your not gonna get the education you probably want if you quit. Ummm... unless you can get a job on the weekends where you can file thats what some teens do. My friend she was 14 and she worked at taco cabana and she made it through. Well its gonna be really complicated. Even later on if I were a family member of yours I would help you as many ways as I can but... ♥
2007-02-04 02:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, if you quit school your entire life is going to be harder for you. you need the money, i understand, but you need the education a lot more. please please please do NOT quit school. get your highschool diploma, and then work during the day and take college classes at night. you've already made your life very challenging, to say the least, becoming a mother at 13 years old. But think about the jobs you'll get with no education. Think of how hard it will be to live off minimum wage. I'm not being sarcastic, I mean it.
It would be great if you could explain to your Tia that your education has to come first, but that you would appreciate working for her part-time... that way you can accomplish both. But the smartest thing you can do is get an education. Good luck to you!
2007-02-04 09:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by ~Biz~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that the best thing for you and the baby is that you give the baby away. It pains me to say it, but he will have a much better life in an orphanage than with a 13-year-old. I just hope he didn't have AIDS or anything like that.
If you were molested (which it doesn't sound like) then I would recommend that you get some help finding that lowlife that infected you.
In any case, do not think about abortion. It was God's plan for you to have this baby. It was meant to be born. Abortion is indeed murder.
I am so sorry that you have to go through with this.
In answer to your question, you should stay in school if you can; otherwise make sure you have a way of getting back in when you're done.
2007-02-03 10:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by wigglyworm91 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No and let me tell u why.I work with children and where I work they have a day care at the school just for kids like u.It is high school though.You need to check and see if your high school has this.The reason is u need to stay in school so u get a education. You might want to go back to school when u get older.If u haven't finished H.S then your changes of returning are slim.So go and get it and then think about your child. The happier u are and the better u can provide for him or her the easier life is.Good luck
2007-02-03 11:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shoud stay in school and if that gets too hard then think about taking home schooling. do not drop out because then in the future you will not be able to provide very well without a good job. You could also take a year off from school to be with your baby then go back the following year, but my best suggestion is to take home schooling until you are ready to go back. and get your boyfriend to finish school too!
Good Luck!
2007-02-03 10:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, finish school. You will never be able to get a good paying job without at least a high school diploma. I know it is tempting to quit, but think about your future. Do you really want to work minimum wage jobs for the rest of your life? And your boyfriend should finish, too. How will he support a wife and child with minimum wage income? I'm telling you now, it's just not possible. Please be smart and finish school.
2007-02-05 06:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh well if your only 13, you cant drop out...so you dont have much choice. You could get a part time job,- but your only 13. you cant quit school, your supposed to be in school untill your 16--its the LAW!!! So i guess that sucks for you that your having a kid at 13. Unbelievable. What is happening to this world?
2007-02-03 16:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by smiley chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in school as long as you can, its better for you in the long run. Even if when you get to high school you have to just get your GED, dropping out now isnt good for you or you baby. You'll be working a dead end job forever and im sure thats not what you want.It will be hard but stay in classes.I was a teen mom too, i got my GED and went to trade school to be a medical assistant, and now i am in real college.
2007-02-04 05:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by cherokee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your only 13 and pregnant poor Honey if you don't mind me asking how this happened at your age. Give us info on this so we can better help you. But I'll tell you know,
If it was rape take that dead beat father to court and sue him put him in jail and file for full custody and child support.
If it was your choice why at such a young age did you want a child your still young and have not done anything to experience life or try for your permit and license or graduated and gone to your prom.
If it was by mistake Honey that's what condoms are for and at your age this should have been far from your mind.
Now that you have a little one on your way your going to have to grow up and your going to need a lot of support to care for this little one.
I hope your family is still supportive of you and the father.
2007-02-03 11:02:43 · answer #11 · answered by rosemommy2be 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋