i just relized a guy i really like was only being nice to me because he wanted me to pay for all the drugs he does. i really feel used what should i do?
2007-02-03 10:39:00 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him and consider it a lesson learned. How pathetic are you? Can't you find a guy that's not such a loser? Try finding someone with a job and no drug habits. It's not hard.
2007-02-03 10:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there is nothing you really can do, except be glad you realized it now and didn't pay for any more of his drugs than you already have paid for. just consider it a learning experience and don't let it happen again, there really are some good guys out there you just have to keep looking, and there is noting wrong with having fun with a few of the bad ones along the way!!
2007-02-03 10:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between you and yourself, just live and learn from it. Don't beat yourself up too bad. We all have been there. But you know what to look for now, when a loser comes around. As for the loser dude, don't even give him the time of day-literally. He's not worth your time ever again, because he will be back! So you better be prepared to shut is butt down. Don't allow people like this pull your self-esteem down to nothin!!!!! Be strong, cuz he will sense your vibe Good luck!
2007-02-03 10:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out why such a loser seemed like a good idea to you. You let yourself be used, but it's a good sign that you're learning something from the experience. Now, how you face the future is more critical than your feelings of being used. You should be able to take this experience and use it to immediately disqualify a guy. So, welcome to life, lady, it hurts at times. but also, welcome to growth, lady, you can use it to be a better person in the future.
2007-02-03 10:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be VERY happy you found out how he is now, before you got to far into the relationship...you don't want a drug addict! Girl come on! You know you deserve better. So just take it as a lesson learned and move on,
2007-02-03 10:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it sucks, but its a lesson well learned, and now you will know better in the future. Unfortunately people screw other people and its not fair especially when there are strong feelings that are getting hurt, but we all learn from our mistakes and those that don't break us only make us stronger. So screw him, don't talk to him ever again tell him to f... off and walk away knowing that u learned a lesson and hopefully will not repeat the same mistake twice.
2007-02-03 10:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r smart enough to know what to do. #1.continue to pay for his drugs ,the drugs will eventually destroy the jerk.2# stop seeing him,this might save him cause no dough no dope. And most important never loose hope cause someone said life is like a box of chocolates.Take care ....ronii1978yh
2007-02-03 11:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do...but just see this situation as a life lesson.
I am sorry that you feel used because I have been where you are and it feels really crappy...but you will get over it and you will learn never to do it again...good luck to you:)
2007-02-03 10:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him, do even acknowledge to him, don't give him the satisfaction of thinking hes so great, which is most likely what he thinks of him self...what hes been doing is horrible... You could always tell somebody that hes buying and using drugs, get em in trouble...
2007-02-03 10:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to the guy in public and say "i thought you were some thing else, but your just another pot headed loser that will be locked behind bars in 4 years, dumped by every girl if your even lucky enough to get one and screwed up in so many places, your parents will be ashamed to know you." and walk away
2007-02-03 10:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by HELLO123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋