ok im 14 and i've been going out with this guy for about a month. we really like each other a lot and when were apart we always talk about how much we miss each other. all my friends say that we need to kiss but im really scared about it because he hasn't said anything about it what should i do?
2007-02-03 10:38:37 · 22 answers · asked by pinkfreak1994 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kisses are nothing. You should go for it and enjoy it. It's not like you can get pregnant from kissing. And no, you will not get cooties.
2007-02-03 10:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a natural feeling to be a little nervous but you dont have to be scared. If you are doubtful than wait a whil. If you feel like having the experience , then close your eyes and let him kiss you . you dont have much to do in the begining . Everything will fall into place soon. U want some more advice > I am at :rowell1608@yahoo.com
2007-02-03 18:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by rowell1608 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to kiss?
Don't stir up love, until it so desires.
Please reflect on this: what is next after your first kiss? Where is your future with this boy?
Be careful in the way which you live; be wise. There is only one life that we can live on Earth, and it is a shadow. It is but a passing in the wind. As individuals should we choose how we live. Remember your Creator in your youth.
2007-02-03 19:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Spent On Rainy Days 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,he probably hasnt said anything about it cuz hes nervous 2,so u shouldnt worry,their aint really no right way or wrong way 2 kiss,just move ur lips against his,its easy,dont even worry bout it,u'll do fine,hey im 14 2,and i had my 1st kiss on my 13th bday,i was nervous,but as it turns out now,im pertty damn good,lol,good luck!
2007-02-03 18:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by *Brooke* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1, don't listen to your friends. They are not you, and you don't seem like you are ready so why let them rush you in to something you don't want to do.
Number 2, just wait until it just happens. I'm telling you it will. He'll ask or you'll lean into each other. It might even start out as a peck on the cheek. Just wait.
2007-02-03 18:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by katiej47 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, we all have been there.. It is scary and we tend to get really nervous.. You just let hte guy know. be honest with him you never kissed a guy before and tell him, that it would be nice if he could 'teach' you what to do. Chances are, you will figure out on your own, actually. i'm sure he's a nice guy and he'll be just gentle with you.. Good luck! :D
2007-02-03 18:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax. If you really like the guy and he likes you, he'll go for the kiss. If you feel you aren't ready for it for some reason, try and find the cause of your insecurities, such as does he really like you? Obviously yes, if he's been with you for a month, so you should relax, and just be ready- it's a very pleasant experience ;)
2007-02-03 18:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy A 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't give into peer pressure. It sounds like your boyfriend likes you for you. I think you are too young to be dating, but that is just my opinion. Since you are, now is the time to learn a little lesson about relationships...keep your intimate business to yourself! It is not your friends business whether or not you have kissed. Discussing it just leads to pressure. If you kiss him, what will they be pushing you to do next? Will you listen to that too?
2007-02-03 18:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start off with a peck and hten move on to the mushy stuff. Trust me if u make the first move he will come along. He's scared just like u are. If your really sure he likes you then you have nothing to worry about.
2007-02-03 18:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll only get one first kiss, dont ruin it by doing it before you feel ready. He may also not be ready. If you dont want to, just dont do it! What your friends are doing is called peer pressure. Peer pressure can also cause you to get drunk, do drugs, join a gang..etc. Listen to your conscience, Its there for a reason!
2007-02-03 18:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋