i feal that he is acting like a baby would it be wrong for me to treat him like one. he wets his bed pants day in and day out.
2007-02-03 10:20:25 · 14 answers · asked by michaeljamescarpenter 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
N0T EXACLY , IF HE WANTS TO ACT LIKE A BABY HE SHOULD BE TREATED LIKE ONE. BUT DONT RIDICULE HIM ABOUT THE ISSUE, JUST REALLY INFORCE THAT HE NEEDS TO GROW UP.
2007-02-03 10:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Has he always done this or has it started recently. If this is not a new situation, you seem to have waited a long time to try to do something. Regardless, get him to a doctor, he may have some physical problem, if not try a therapist. If you feel that hes only doing it for attention, then obviously you need to pay more attention to him, and don't wait til his pants are wet.
2007-02-03 11:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by yeraluzer 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to find the cause. Is this something that has just begun? or has he always had bladder problems? There also could be a psychological problem. You should treat him with respect regardless, I'm sure he feels bad enough.
2007-02-03 17:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by lisa b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 35 and have a hard time holding it as does my 13 y/o daughter... We make too much urine and have small bladders. I dont wanna wear a diaper though.. take him to the doctor...Desmopressin or other behavioral therapy could help
2007-02-03 10:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by CottonTail 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
take him to the doctor. he may have a bladder condition. I know some kids who have a medical problem that causes them to wet any time with out control. if he is just being lazy, I dont know what to tell you.
2007-02-03 14:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive read your questions and ive come to 2 difernt conclusions either your asking questions to get a rise out of people or you have a 13year old or are a 13 yr old who wishes to be like a baby again thsi is called infatalism if this is the case visit this page http://understanding.infantilism.org/ and seek help from a counsiler if your trying to get a rise out of people go away there are people here that are willing to help and its not right to take advantage of them by asking stupid questions
2007-02-04 04:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by mommyofanangel06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My brother did the same thing, got some tests done to rule out the worst before labelling him just lazy and he did have a problem with his bladder. Talk to the doctor about it.
2007-02-03 10:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
there are many reasons a child of that age is wetting himself, even out of disobedience but..... just to name a few, abuse of any nature (sexually, mental, physical) can create peeing problems. there are medical conditions that can also cause a problem.
i would try talking him in a adult manner, call your pediatrician, or take him in for counseling, he may have a problem he feels is to big to talk to you about. good luck
2007-02-03 10:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by J M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man my cousin had the same problem, im pretty sure if the child wanted attention he would be bad in school or something not pee on himself. maybe your very scary to him so he cant control it. but anyway it go's you need to have his mother or somone take him to a doctor what ever you do dont be cruel to your child if he might have serious problem
2007-02-03 17:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by comacati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't put a diaper on him!!! Have you gone to a specialist? It really could be a problem in the urinary tract!!! Or it could be just some stress in his life!!? Is there any new stress in his life? Work on that!!!
2007-02-03 13:30:47 · answer #10 · answered by Tammy G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋