i just got a question for some people who have had long relationships or are still in one. i love him i really do but doesnt anyone get like second thoughts every once in awhile, and like wana break uop with them because even though u wana be with them forever u kinda dont. you wanna try other things with other people and u know have more then one boyfriend for the rest of ur life?? anyone?
2007-02-03 10:14:56 · 11 answers · asked by supergirl g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for all ur help u guys. ur smart and good luck to anyone whos in the same situation !!
2007-02-03 10:29:43 · update #1
If you have doubts like that , yes leave you haven't finished playing the field yet.
2007-02-03 10:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Venom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking yourself this kind of question, then you are NOT at a point where you should make a serious commitment. Second thoughts, though are sometimes normal given situations that one may have gone through in past relationships Ask yourself if you are REALLY ready to make a lifetime commitment to this ONE person for the rest of your life. Are you ready to have the best and worst times of your life with this person-sometimes fighting FOR your relationship? Through thick and thin? Good and bad?
If you do not, it is not fair to the other person to pretend that you do. If you want to be out there like that-get out there like that. Life lessons are sure to follow you.
2007-02-03 18:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same scenario im in, I wish i had the answers you are looking for. You cant break up with them because you love them but the thought of being with them forever in reality shakes you up a bit. We talk about marriage but inside I am saying (ya buddy not for years!) Its tough, I tried to break up with him cuz of that but it didnt seem like the right answer. He is the sweetest guy I have ever been with and would make an amazing husband, but maybe after I date other guys and do everything I want to do in life
2007-02-03 18:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by cdani425 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I am going to tell you from experience. You dont want to try any thing new. You really arnt missing any thing. You are a women too. If you have a good guy now then I woulnt leave him to try something new. About 85% of guys are jerks and will treat you like ****, You dont want that. It might not be you want to be out there with other guys either. It might be something else you are looking for and you dont know what it is. YOu have to figure it out. Maybe even talk to him about it. You might want to try new sexual thing that you have never dont before. Just think about it before you do that.
Talk to him about it. You will figure it out
2007-02-03 18:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Chris F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like you might be kinda young so that is understandable, competely. If it is only every so often then I wouldn't be too worried, but if you are thinking about this everyday and when yuo are with him then it might be time to say good bye, at least for a while.
2007-02-03 18:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by katiej47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been with my boyfriend for a little over two years and i always think about that, its normal. But i know if he asked me to marry him i'd say yes in a heart beat. I cant picture my life without him, thats why i'm still with him. yea i think it'd be fun to date around again, but it's not worth loosing the guy i really love for a few jerks i'm only going to drink and party with haha.
2007-02-03 18:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by jntt19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having second thoughts then I'm sorry, but maybe he's not the one for you. I know a guy that married his first gf, & the thought never entered his head to be with someone else. If the guy is right, you'll know. Sorry, but that's my opinion...
2007-02-03 18:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by kyls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea sometimes that does happen.....for brief times though i nvr really feel like i dont want to be with my gf.....but sometimes i feel as if i dont but tht usually only lasts like 5 seconds....if you want to try new things talk to ur bf....see wats on his mind, maybe he wants to try new things (and sometimes its for the better) like you can say " hey i want to try something new....like take a break from our relationship and try something else out..." and if u do and it works, ur all set but if it doesnt usually the other person would understand and take u back its happened to me b4 so
2007-02-03 18:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by hatebreed55555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this relationship isnt for u. maybe u need space. i walked away from a few one year relationships. two in fact. i realized what was once there wasnt anymore and moved on. im now in a two year relationship and have yet to have a second thought. so maybe you just need your space or to move on.
2007-02-03 18:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by blackraven254 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh it all depends on if you are truly happy in my opinion
2007-02-03 18:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋