OK, say you met a guy and you gave him your phone number and when he did call you didn't answer the phone or even bother to call him back. You have no reason yet, to know whether or not you don't like him. Simply because you don't know him yet. However, if he doesn't call you back after he leaves his message for you to get back with him. Do you give him a call back, and explain why you couldn't call him back? Or do you just not call him back? If you don't call him back after he left a message and you don't even know if you don't like him or not what is the reason then?
2007-02-03 10:10:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Superficial, I agree with the last response. The one girl who said females don't owe guys anything. Well, don't cry when guys cheat on girls even if they're married because like you said females don't owe guys anything. You put your foot in your mouth on that one. We don't owe you girls nothing either. Females owe guys more than they think if they want a commitment from a guy. However, I'll stay single and I'll be fine. I still will get what I want. LOL
2007-02-03 10:22:31 · update #1
Here's what you don't understand about girls: While guys have one girl on their minds; they phone them and they think about them and they want them, we have three, four, five, sometimes more guys calling us all the time. We don't really care if you're upset that we didn't call you back, because we were probably on a date with the first guy who called, or maybe just the best looking guy who called. Whatever the case, you need to move on and try your luck with another girl. It's not like you guys are married, she doesn't owe you anything, not even an explanation. Hope that helped.
2007-02-03 10:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Tellus A 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Most sincere women will give the number out with the intention that she will not answer the phone when you call. This is because we do not want to be rude because of the atmosphere we are in or what. We also dont want to come across the wrong way. But i gurantee you that it was premeditated whether she was going to answer the phone or not. Also, sometimes we are in a situation and want a way out but really not sure how so timing may be off as well. Another thing could also be that she really has not had the time to call back because i am like that with some of my friends. There is just really too much going on at times for anything. Now most up front women would have just said that they were not interested and left it at that but i myself have taken a number because i did not want to embarass that person and then just not return the call. It could be a number of things just depends on the women you are dealing with. stay blessed!
2007-02-03 18:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by shay80800 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately for guys, a women doesn't have to know wether she likes a guy to know wether or not she finds them attractive. If a woman is not attracted to a man than most likely she won't call him back, and especially not to explain. Some women simply feel flattered by the attention but don't try to give any false hopes by stringing a guy along. If it hasn't been more than 2 days there is a slim chance that she may still call. A woman who is truly interested will pretend to be stand-offish or busy and not call a guy back for a 2-3 days. It's just some of those rules for dating that some women employ in order to ensure the interest of the guy. After all, no man sticks with a woman who seems too needy or too easy to get. Good Luck!
2007-02-03 18:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Brandie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't like the sound of his voice on the phone or you met under odd circumstances. Maybe she gave her number out to 5 guys that night and you weren't the first to call her. Maybe she's a player. If she doesn't call you back, move on. She's not interested. Give her a couple days, though. Maybe some emergency came up. 10 minutes isn't enough time for a call back.
2007-02-03 18:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by lucki female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls will pass out their phone number to every guy they meet because they dont know how to say NO to the guy. Maybe they were drunk and thought they liked him and decided different when sobered up. Maybe they were on the prowel for a night and wanted something different then changed their mind. (If involved allready) I would have the courtesy to at least call him back and tell him I changed my mind and give some reason(even if it's a lie- he will know where he stands and NOT waste anymore time calling you). PLUS then he won't keep calling since he knows you aren't interested anymore.
In future, if you don't really want the guy to call you and don't know how to say no to him, give a FAKE number.
2007-02-03 18:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is directed towards females, but i thought i would throw in my two cents...
honestly, you'll probably never know the answer to that question, and quite frankly, i don't think u want to know... more often than not, she's just flat out not interested... maybe she has a boyfriend?? or maybe she woke up the next day and realized that u weren't her type?? it happens... bottom line, don't worry yourself about it, if she can't be courteous enough to return a phone call, why would u want to be with her in the first place??
and 5 minutes is more than enough time for most people to realize if there is potentially anything between them and someone they meet... like i said, don't waste your time, don't even think about it and just go on as u were before...
2007-02-03 18:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by shoei7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait and wait to be sure he really really was willing to work to get me otherwise he didn't want me bad enough. I wouldn't let it go so far as to play games, but I am traditional. Men should do the pursuing. I would leave no room for doubt that the man was down for me. I was happy to be single, so I didn't need any frivolous flash in the pan relationships. So, a guy would have to prove himself to me and let me feel him you know. When we built a friendship, a level of familiarity and understanding, then I'd call him and be sure to return his calls. I'm married now but that is what I as a single dating female did. And I'm that Proverbs 31 woman just so ya know. Peace bro.
2007-02-03 18:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to be honest it could be the click.
now i have to say i have met alot of stupid guys and that is a reason for not calling them back, expecally if he keeps calling .
and if he dont call back then id say ''see ya'', it wasnt important to me anyways.
it has nothing to do with complete looks, im not superfical or anything, but its the way they act.
if they are total jerks on the first meeting, see ya
if he is ignorent and buligerent, see ya
if he has no manners at all see ya
and if he is just completely stupid and cant comprehend anything, is constantly asking '' huh, what you say,i didnt get that , duhhhhhhhh'' then hella see ya.
i have no time for stupitity, and that would be a reason for not calling back
2007-02-03 18:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usaually a girl feel more important if the guy calls first. If she dosent call you back after numerous calls then its simply because SHE NOT INTRESTED!!!!!! Even if she gave you her number its to get you off her back. Or she probably gave you the wrong number. sorry
2007-02-03 18:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the girl isnt into the person that way and has no better way to tell you then by hurting your feelings. If they are that rude why waste ur time with them? there are probley about a handful of girls that would actually call you back. Hope that helps!
2007-02-03 18:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋