does anyone have any good tips to get over a guy?

Question

well, i dated this guy for 8 months, he cheated on me, but we got past it eventually. Then, a month and a half after it happened, he breaks up with me because he still feels extremely bad for what he did ad he can't live with himself or something like that.I tried to talk things out with him, but it just didnt do anything.i REALLY love him, and it hurts SO much.i need advice on how i can get over it and move on with my life, because i just dont se us ever getting back together.Help me please?

Answer 1

You can't look for someone else to make you happy. TRUE happiness starts from within.

Answer 2

You lookin for me gurl I am in the same sitch... well I was and I took a couple steps

1) Look at it in his point of view and think well that was a good reason or I did kinda...

2) Think who he is and whom you thought he was (NOT ALL GUYS ARE LIKE HIM!!!)

3) except that he lost YOU you did not loose anything good

4) Move on to a better guy if he didnt work who cares another guy will fit in his place

And 5) Use a bounce back to move you have to build a bridge and it may take a while, you may run out of fuel but get over it some how

Answer 3

I went and worked on a cruise ship after breaking up with my ex boyfriend. Working on a cruise ship was always something I wanted to do and I figured it was the right time because I had nothing holding me back. It was the funnest experience of my life so far. My point is, you don't need to do what I did to get over a guy but find something that interests you like a new club or class. Do something you've always wanted to do. You will feel really good about yourself.

Answer 4

Apparently "if you love someone, set them free, if they come back, they were always your, if they don't they never were" and "it takes as much time to fall out of love as it does to fall in love in the first place"..I know I'm not being helpful, but *sigh*...you can wallow in self-pity but only one hour a day, you can write a book about why you love him in the first place, and how you feel now thats its over, and why you dont see you getting back together, anything you feel like...its like getting everything out of your system, and onto a paper so you dont carry it around with you anymore...and you'll probably find you don't want to be with him anyway. And, as a side note, if he really felt bad... he'd try to make amends, not end it..or maybe I'm just an insensitive wart too...:S

Answer 5

if he cheated on u that's when he lost "love" with you, and saying he cant forgive himself it an easy way to get out the relationship...u don't need him Hun.
Get yourself a Hobie like join up for a sport or go out more often to the movies with ur friends keep ur mind occupied and after a couple of months u will see yourself dating again

Answer 6

Once a cheater always a cheater. You are worth so much more. You deserve a guy who doesnt cheat. He didnt break up with you cuz he felt bad. he broke up with you because it wasnt meant to be, maybe why he cheated.

Answer 7

Be flirty,sweet, giggle, supply them googly eyes lol..And lead them to sense like they're helping you in a roundabout way both by skill of verbal substitute or bodily...and ensure that you do tell them how they helped you...it makes them sense solid ;)

Answer 8

find this time to better yourself... pick up something that you've always wanted to do but never got around to it... skydiving, learning how to cook, riding a motorcycle, etc etc... don't go to places or do things that will remind u of him... it's going to be a difficult process, i'm not going to lie, but that's what your friends and family are for, they should be able to help distract u from thinking about him...

Answer 9

yes the best way is to find a guy with a bigger p e n i s, f u c k his brains out for a few hours, and you won't even remember whats his name!! it works!!

Answer 10

this might sound really slutty but it's true! somebody once told me "the only way to get over a guy is to get under another one"