Me? I split with the bf a week or two ago and I am not sure what to do next. I felt as though I didn't want to be in the relationship and now I am spending a lot of time wondering if I made a huge mistake. It all seemed so perfect for months - we both thought we had found The One - then suddenly it stopped, the closeness was gone and we could no longer speak to each other without bitterness and resentment (because we were disappointed in each other?)
Have you got a story you want to share?
2007-02-03 10:00:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don have much of a story I'm afraid! I've been working all afternoon and evening (2:15-10:15), and the same yesterday. Can't even go out tonight as I'm back in at work tomorrow at 7am :-( But only working til 11 then I'm spending my first day with the new guy I'm seeing :-)
I'm so sorry to hear what happened. From what you say, it's for the best. I was single for ages (through choice) and it really helped me to get my head together to decide what I'm doing in life and the goals I want to achieve. See this as an opportunity. Spend more time with your mates, pick up new hobbies etc etc. You will feel stronger again - especially if you work on yourself. :-)
2007-02-03 10:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cat burgler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm at my sisters skegness where i in lived 4 7years and i move bk 2 Sheffield where I'm from 2 live with my bf that i love very much but we ant been getting on very well 4 the last 4 months so iv come 2 my sisters 4 the week and i go home 2 morrow and dont think i want 2 go bk i am missing my niece so much so dont no what 2 do
2007-02-03 10:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sitting at home with my fiancee who is playing a game of hockey on the PS2. We're inside because there's a storm outside - I hate to perpetuate the stereotype of Buffalo's bad weather, but this is actually the first bad storm we've had since the surprise October snowstorm.
We spend most of our Saturdays in our apartment though. We just don't like to go out and drink anymore and we've grown apart from our friends. Sometimes, I'm afraid we've become a boring couple and will get sick of each other.
2007-02-03 10:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i were yu...i would just try and wipe out the all the good and bad memories that yu have of him completely.....this means deleting text messages/email etc.... anything at all that reminds yu of him get rid of....even its a certain smell like a spray/perfume yu used to wear when yu were with him that reminds yu of him...songs etc.....erasing every thing to do with him will help yu get on with yur life and will stop memory triggers. As it all went wrong in the end, its fate that yu obviously just werent meant to be......go out with girl mates alot more....just have lots and lots of fun....dont get hung up about it at any moment....keep yurself busy and happy and hopefully some one else might come along...who is attracted to yur carefree happiness...but maybe yu might wanna take a break all together and just stay single for a while. The trick is to keep yurself busy....so that yu dont have time to think about the past and what might have been....it ended badly and yu cant change it...another word of advise....NEVER go back.....it might seem alright for a little while and seem like things have changed but the same problems will always come back sooner or later....
xxx
2007-02-03 10:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No story here--it's freezing outside, I've been running around all day, so I'm tired, and I guess I'm just to the point in my life where I don't feel like I'm a loser if I spend a weekend night home alone. OMG, does that mean I'm old????
2007-02-03 10:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by Denise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a bummer about your b/f split.
I'm always in on a Saturday night because (a) I don't have a b/f, (b) I don't have any friends who live where I do, and (c) I can't afford to go on a night out. My idea of a good night now is the occasional gig, otherwise it's me and a pizza.
2007-02-03 10:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Minky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I met my husband 15 years ago I left my mates behind, they have all gone off elsewhere, I have 3 kids and no mates, I don't make friends easily as Im very quiet and never seem to have much to say!! Im here alone coz my husband is working nights, my sister is out with her mates and my kids are asleep....................how do I change this
2007-02-03 11:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A couple of days ago my girlfriend and I were at her friend's house playing phase ten (a card game) and I happened to make a joke and my girlfriend took it WAY too seriously and now we haven't spoken since......So now I will find out what it feels like to be alone on Valentines day.
2007-02-03 10:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by spock78765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sitting here alone with my kids because my husband finds it fine to go out every weekend with his friends even though we never get to spend time together...
2007-02-03 10:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No story I'm too old but if the closeness is gone I absoultely assure you he is NOT the one. Don't let lonlienses confuse you, get out and about
2007-02-03 10:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋