When you tell your boyfriend (43 year old man) that you started Weight Watchers and lost 10lbs so far, he looks at you up and down and says" Well you must have gained 10 before you even started ! "
2007-02-03 09:58:03 · 21 answers · asked by wind_rider24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him... thats not nice... at ALL!!!
ps... good job losing those ten pounds thou...:)... now... just lose the guy
2007-02-03 10:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by singing2thetop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not see my relatives and that i have 2 brothers and a couple of sisters. It hasn't ever been a worry on me or my spouse and baby. I were married for 15 years, and it not in any respect brought some situation. Her relatives is yet another tale all jointly. I see way too a lot of them lol.
2016-12-03 10:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow Id say he has some issues with his self esteem maybe he is afraid if you look to good you will leave him! That certainly wasnt a nice thing to say to you he should be offering encourgement My last boyfriend called me a fat pig "once" I lost 120 pounds firmed up and said "bye-bye" By the way Great Job! Just keep on keeping on and do it for yourself!Youll be glad you did! You can do it!
2007-02-03 10:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by wildheart327 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he's not goin to encourage and support you durin your weight loss journey then he can kick rocks. You don't need that. Wow, similar situation with my boyfriend cuz he doesn't think I'll lose weight and I'm tryin and I told him that I need a man to support me not bring me down so man-up and be in my corner. Tell him to stop bein so freakin ignorant
2007-02-03 10:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by jobs1012003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats he weight??? bout 220 ??? I would try losing that much.
That was just plain rude and completely disrespectful. You dont deserve that.
You need to find someone who will respect you and encourage you for attempting to be more healthy and confident with yourself.
Congrats on the 10 lbs. YOU GO GIRL!!!
2007-02-03 10:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you dating a 43-year-old man?
2007-02-03 10:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the kind of boyfriend no matter what age that would say this to someone trying to lose weight is a total loser and should be kicked to the curb all he's doing is emotionally distroying ur self confidence and self esteem
2007-02-03 10:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by bugaboos grandma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks that way then he doesn't deserve you! Seriously! Why are you wasting time on him? He's an asshole. Period. Go find someone your own age. My gues sis you are younger, someone who deoswn't just want sexy women that he can grab them by the *** or boobs!
2007-02-03 10:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man feels TOO secure in his relationship with you...That is, he thinks he can do just about anything to you and get away with it...When women land a man, they generally let themselves go PHYSICALLY...When men land a woman, the first things to go are their MANNERS and SELFLESSNESS.
2007-02-03 10:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jefferson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he mean he hadn't noticed you needed to lose weight or did he mean he couldn't tell you lost any at all??????????
Who cares what he meant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You keep at it. You're doing a great job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Any more snide comments from old what's his name and tell him he can watch you skinny *** walk right out the door!!!!!!
2007-02-03 10:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him that you plan on losing (whatever he weighs) in the next week!
The should be no reason for comments like that....
2007-02-03 10:03:39 · answer #11 · answered by tdot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋