Help..... I just broke it off with a man that i have been with for 12 months. It was great to start with then it all turned sour he became moody and mean...... I still love him but i need to move forward. My emotions are taking over and i feel empty. What is the best way to get over these feelings????
2007-02-03 09:50:10 · 10 answers · asked by Cherry R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Occupy your time with things and people you enjoy being around and doing . You will find that happiness is waiting for you .
2007-02-03 09:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with your friends and family who love you.
Take time for yourself and do something special for your self.
Take yourself out to dinner once a week or every two weeks as you can afford it.
Keep a journal as to why you are not with him to remind you that you made the right decision.
In order to break it off the bad out weighed the good so that is why you are not with him remember?
Watch some really funny comedy movies!
Project how it would be if you stayed in the bad relationship with the idiot.
Hope you feel better soon!
2007-02-03 17:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think hes a loser find you a winner to take your mind off of him. Dont sit around being depressed the more time you spend alone the worse you will feel. Get out and do something.
2007-02-03 17:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did it. You are on your way. The best thing is add distance and time between you and you have yourself the freedom of emotion from him. Although, what do you do if he wants another chance? Would you give him a chance a year later if you run into him and he shows he's repentant?
2007-02-03 17:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know people who see others as losers are in concept wrong. After you pick up on defining him - do you wish this person well and will not give him any more time? If so leaving him is enough.
2007-02-03 17:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by AngelKidd+JeffKidd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now might be a good time to travel! Go to NEW YORK, or anywhere that you want that is near for awhile. Buy yourself what you want, but don't go overboard! Also, hang out with your girlfriends for a night out whenever you want to, and don't be afraid to flirt with that cutie you saw at the restaurant!
2007-02-03 17:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by yoooooooooooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the exact same thing, just realize that he missed out on a good thing and that you gave it your all and that's it, It's his loss because he's the loser.
2007-02-03 17:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by melyssa star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you're the loser, because you CHOSE to be with him. Ask yourself why you prefer bad boys, instead of good guys.
2007-02-03 17:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a new man that can make you happy... have fun there are lots out there...
2007-02-03 17:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date sum1 else
2007-02-03 17:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by jelly ♥s him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋