I met this new yorker wile on business trip and i thought we connected , we shared a few kisses (passionate) and at the end of the 2nd evening together i told him to call me on my cell and he agreed and was making suggestions for the next time i would be in N.Y. but he hasn't call yet and it 's been 5 days, should i call him, forget it or wait a little longer?
2007-02-03 09:46:32 · 30 answers · asked by kate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call him
2007-02-03 09:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by trish_womans_champion619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't do you any harm to give him a call but don't get your hopes up. He may be married or tied down with someone - or simply lost your number.
If he answers and gets back in touch after your call then thats good (if he's not in a relationship already).
If he's in a relationship then say your goodbyes and move on. There's lots of men out there waiting for a beautiful woman like you to come along.
All the best!
2007-02-08 20:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by _ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I think men sometimes try to see how much a girl respect herself, and if he agreed on call you he is the one who should do it, most of the times they value a person who is kind of misterius or difficult or them. My boyfriend told me that the thing he most admired on me at the begining was that I did not show interest on him (and I was really interested) Just wait, and also you dont know a lot of him yet so... wait and see what happens. Take care
2007-02-03 09:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Nata 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Kathleen
Don't go holding you breath for him to call, you don't say where you live but I assume it is a bit of a travel to NY, I bet there are thousands of men just up the road from where you live, if you care to look.
It would make spending time with somebody a bit easier than if you had to go to New York to see them, especially when you should be on business so it would just be work, work, work!
2007-02-08 07:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by healer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow everyone is saying don't call him. But I say call him, what can it hurt. Either he will talk to you or not. It won't be a great loss cause you only shared a couple of kisses. It'll be a fun memory.
Maybe he did lose your number, who knows. Go for it, it's just a phone call.
2007-02-11 04:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it unless -- If you happen to be in the neighborhood and bored give him a jingle and let him know but don't push it . Sometimes the second get-together is a lot more revealing than the first.
2007-02-11 05:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by pilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will be men, promises promises promises, they are Mr. right nows. If no call after 5 days, he won't call. Will expect you to call when next in New York (booty calls are all the rage there). Sorry but especially if you have the pond inbetween you, it will be difficult.
2007-02-09 00:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Bella61 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do hear that New York has quite 'strict rules' on dating and the rule on this one is if he aint called you dont call him! as i'm not a new yorker i would perhaps text him first to see if or what he replies with
2007-02-03 10:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Honesty ♥.•´ `*.¸ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until tomoro morning. call then and sound slightlyin a hurry before you go to work. ask if he wants to do soming that night and then say either 'ok thats kl maybe someother time'(and then dont call again) or ' great i'll see you then'(then hang up and do alittle dance lol).
2007-02-03 09:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wanted anything serious to develop from this brief meeting he would of called 4 days ago trust me I'm a bloke
2007-02-03 09:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Grizley Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a fling to me. He is or yourself married? I'd say don't call him, let him call, if he doesn't then that just conferms that it was just a New York fling.
2007-02-09 12:22:43 · answer #11 · answered by zart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋