iv been goin out with ms g.f for bout 5-6years
in the last few months she been asking me to like tie her to my or her bed. i was alright with this n she used handcuffs and stuff
the other week tho she came and cuffed her feet to my bed and i cuffed her hands. then she asked to be kissed n u get the idea. then wen it came to reaesing her she had the keys. I asked ehr where they were. She had put them in her bra. now i duno cus at the mo id dunno if we were ready to like do tht. but she was stuck and i had no choice. is this famillia and what would u do?
ma spellin rubbish i aplogise now
p.s normally we talk about everything. we even said we wouldnt have sex untill we reach 18
2007-02-03 09:41:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bondage is a very common fetish among men and women. If she likes it and you too, than there is no harm in it.
However, if you are young as you two are, don't forget to explore the more usual kinds of sex. You can always add some spice later....
That said, here are some links for you to explore and learn about bondage.
Bondage 101:
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/BDSMinfo/bondage.htm
http://ms.ha.md.us/~tammad/over21/bondage/
Collection of links to tutorials (not all still work):
http://www.massachusettsbondage.com/tutorials/Tutorials.html
Shibari in pictures, very complete:
http://www.japanrope.com/tutorial.html
http://ds-arts.com/RopeArt/tutorials.html
Rope lingerie: breast bondage and crotch rope in pictures
http://www.nawashi.com/tutor/sjm.html
http://www.nawashibari.com/
Very complete, but text only, therefore sometimes difficult to understand:
http://www.bdsm-chicago.com/cram/CRAM_tuts.html
2007-02-04 23:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by cordefr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it man, just remember to always respect whatever she says. If she says NO, then it means NO. A woman that loves bondage is a wonderful thing, hold on to her (or let her lock herself to your bed) but don't do anything to damage the trust she's showing in you and for God's sake remember how lucky you are to find a girl like this!!!
2007-02-04 23:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be 'usual', but that doesn't make it too strange. A lot of people have their own idea of what is most sexual to them. You either gotta live with it, or go somewhere else, I guess. Personally, it sounds kind of fun! lol
2007-02-03 09:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bondage is more common than you think... Tons of girls and guys like being tied up.. its not gender based at all, and there is a whole underground lifestyle based on it (BDSM) thats really not so underground anymore...
2007-02-03 09:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every girl has there own since of style and they like trying different things. the tieing up thing may be her way of trying to spice things up but if youre not comfortable with it let her kno
2007-02-03 09:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by mzaquarius08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys aren't even 18 and you're doing all this. At first i thought you guys were in you were in your 30's doing all this adult stuff.
2007-02-03 09:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a strange young lady.
2007-02-03 09:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all girls enjoy being tied up... you have uncovered a freak. Congratulations. Enjoy it while it lasts.
2007-02-03 09:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
no problems, girls like to experiment too, just like us.
2007-02-03 09:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by eckzl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's strange, sweetheart.
2007-02-03 09:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by ebonii_cuteee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋