this girl has broken my heart, i reallly liked her becaue i dont think there will be any body in my life to swpoop me up that was as beautiful and careing as her and now i am depressed in my boxers eating tuna sandwiches and listening to sad music oh god what should i do
2007-02-03 09:40:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I did that too. The thing is that when one door closes, another one opens. Take things one day at a time and do not sit at home in your boxers feeling sorry for yourself. Go out and take a walk, jog or meet some friends and go out for lunch. Listening to sad music will make it worse. Keep active and try a service called eharmony.com . This is a service that matches you up on different levels of compatability. Do this when you feel ready to find another girl. Until then, talk to your friends and socialize with others who have a sympathetic shoulder.I did not think that I could even go on after an 8 year romance with my ex girl friend. But just when I did not expect it, I met my little sweety and fell head over heels in love with her. We have been married 10 wonderful happy years. She is the love of my life and I am so glad that the other romance failed because it did not even compare to what I have now! Best wishes!
2007-02-03 09:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Alan C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone who's recently been there, some advice I wish I'd gotten. Don't try to contact the girl, don't allow the girl to contact you. No talking and no expectation of talking for at least six months. It's really hard at first but trust me - you can't heal when you're talking to the problem. Don't listen to sad music. I reprogrammed all the stations in my car and discovered that I like other types of music too. Hang out with friends. Girls come and go, but friends are forever. And don't spend the whole time talking about the girl. You get 10 minutes, then try to enjoy yourself. That will get easier too. Stay busy. Join a gym, get a video game, something new that you didn't do while you were dating. And lastly, quit being angry at innocent strangers you see who are in relationships and happy. They'll probably end up unhappy too. Just kidding. It sucks now, but you will get through this and you'll be better for it. Just be glad you found out she wasn't the one before you got married and had kids together. Good luck.
2007-02-03 09:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Girlfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got her, so that tells me you can get someone else! Smelling like Tuna and sitting in your place listening to sad music is not going to bring Cinderella to a handsome Prince!
Take a shower, put on some good cologn, be sure to brush your teeth!, and get dressed up as nicely as you can, and go to a mall, a grocery store, a flower shop, a craft store or out with your friends. If you don't care about you, how can someone else? This last one gave you some experience on your way to finding your perfect Princess!!!
2007-02-03 09:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by kathleen m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sorry you have a broken heart. We've all been through it and lived. Just give yourself time.
Don't allow the tuna sandwiches and food to take over your life.
Give yourself some time to grieve, then go out and meet some new people. Who knows what will happen???
2007-02-03 09:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You never know, someone may step into your life and surprise you. In the meantime, call some buddies and go out to a bar or somewhere lively. Don't go with a desire to "meet girls", just go have a guys night. Bro's before Ho's. haha. Have a drink or two (don't over do it) it will help you relax a little and talk to your friends about it. I'm sure they'll help you through it. Make sure to have a d.d. though... and that you're over 21!! hehe...kinda important.
2007-02-03 09:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by Pure Heart 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look to Shakespeare my friend. "Men have died from time to
time and worms have eaten them,but not for love."
Wrote that centuries ago. So having a broken heart sucks but
is something countless people have endured. You will live to
see another day and love another,better,woman.
Hang in there.
2007-02-03 09:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by Wild Colonial Girl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that, you get hurt, but you get over it. You'll be ok after a week or 2, Try to keep busy man and have fun with your friends, maybe go find a nice girl to talk to when you go out with them someplace.
2007-02-03 09:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. It might seem like the end of the world right now but in a few weeks, after meeting a few new people, you'll hardly remember her.
2007-02-03 09:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by Craig 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to sad music to remind u. go out there and have fun. u might find some1 else to cheer u up. it dont even have to be a potential girlfriend but a friend. so dont sit there and be sad. be happy that u can go out there and search for some1 else. u might find some1 better than her who wont break your heart. shootz u might end up breaking some1 elses heart.
2007-02-03 09:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by CaribbeanChica 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Deen-dude you will get over it and another babe will find you.this is part of maturing,however you got to chill with stuffing your mouth.Babes do not like fat guys.Remember women are are like a bus- another will come along soon.cheer up!
2007-02-03 09:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by adam p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋