ok me and my bf were makin out like crazy last night, i didnt wanna have sex with him, but he took off his pants and he ya know put it in, but not all the way in just like a lil....right know i dunno if im still a virign or not?? plzz help gimmie ur opinion??
2007-02-03 09:40:19 · 18 answers · asked by Florentina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? You didn't want sex but obviously you didn't have your pants on either. Sounds consensual to me. You are probably not a virgin. If this matters to you you should not put yourself in a position where you are going to get carried away again. Oh, by the way, did you use any birth control??
2007-02-03 09:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by crzygal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it depends on how far he went in, and how well endowed he is, but some girls dont need a whole lot of pressure applied to do the damage, and not all girls bleed the first time as well. so your gonna have to use your best judgment. and if u think ur still a virgin and wanna stay that way, then i suggest u take it easy on the crazy makin out sessions untill your sure you wanna do it with him, its a big responsability and sex chages everything, so be careful. if your still not sure then going to OBGYN wont hurt either and u can get some peace of mind.
2007-02-03 09:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have any bleeding of any kind? Normally you will a bit . You do know by permitting him to go that far, he is going to do it again, or at least try. What do you really want? If you want to stay a virgin, you need to have one serious talk now-today! Plus, are you ready to take care of a baby-is he? Don't forget birth control! Having a child is a HUGE commitment! I hope you know this is the boy you will remember your whole entire life! Is it like you dreamed?
2007-02-03 10:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i think youre still a kid maybe 14? some girls don't bleed when they lose their virginity. youre a 50/50 virgin already. youre bf just rape you, incase you dont know that. you should dump your bf. WHY? coz he don't respect you... he doesnt love you he just wanna f u c k
you.. believe me, once he got you he will forget you
2007-02-03 09:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by the choosen1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don hav no idea but i think u migght ot turn preg so next time u try it tell him to shove it in ur behind i guess
2007-02-03 10:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. what you just described sounds like rape to me!! you have to tell someone. (other than the random strangers you meet here)
2. did you feel something rip? did it hurt? did you bleed? if you answer any of these yes then I don't think you are anymore. but you answer no then you can relax he didn't take your virginity.
once again tell someone, anyone. it sounds like rape to me.
2007-02-03 09:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whose a virgin these days, I mean seriously.It happened it's not the end of the world as long as you like him.
2007-02-03 09:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by melyssa star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin means that your hymen is intact. I think you would have noticed if your bf tore it by entering you. Hence you still can be a virgin.
2007-02-03 09:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mütterchen Frost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your hymen was broken and there was a bit of blood then you are no longer a virgin. If this did not happen then you are still a virgin.
2007-02-03 09:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about whether you are a virgin or not. If i were you, i would take an HIV test. Stay away from the jerk!
2007-02-03 09:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋