Thank you in advance for reading my question.
I'm sorry if you think this is too much information, but I really need good answers to this. Anyway...
I really like this girl. She's good looking, and just really nice- easy to talk to etc. Both of us are really shy, and I am ashamed to say, we never talk at school.
I speak to her nearly every night after school on MSN, and she seems really open to me, and not really shy. We joke, and poke fun of each other, etc.
I know she talks to alot of other boys (which I have no problem with) and am not sure if she like-likes me or not.
Please help me, thank you.
2007-02-03 09:36:04 · 11 answers · asked by thegoodman01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just like to say thanks very much to all who answered.
Just in responce, I know I could never ask her out, or even mention who she like until I am absoloutly sure she really like me.
If she turns me down, or I make a fool of myself, I could never live it down, honestly, you have no idea how nervous I am.
I don't want to lose the friendship we already have, but I really want her before someone else asks her out.
2007-02-03 09:50:13 · update #1
I have the same problem mate
People have said to me that if she doesn't fancy me then i should just move on, and that she is maybe using me for some reason, take a look at mine and check out my answers for your help (its the question about how do i get her out of my mind(the first one i ever asked))
Hope it helps mate
Its freaky how similar our problems are, i didn't have the guts to ask her out, and now she has a boyfriend, if you really want her, you've got to find some way of getting her, don't let her slip through, its the mistake i made...
2007-02-03 09:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by jonny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright my friend take a deep breath and read what I'm about to say.If your going to have a relationship you need to have one in person.You need to say Hi when you make eye contact and ask her how shes doing.Basically tak to her like how you would online.As soon as you feel a connection between you and your lover you need to be classy and say maybe " Hey i have something i want to get off my chest" and then say you like her.If she nods and has a smile that sets a red flag that you've done it then just try to work it from there and if she denies your love.Just say"Oh alright that may be a better idea that we could just be friends"dont worry if you lose her friendship,cuz friendships heal,and by doing this your gaining some of her trust making it comfortable between you two..
Try it,your the man dont forget.
2007-02-03 14:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Highfive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey mate i had the same problem just a week ago, i really like this girl and chatted to her all the time on msn but we never even said hi to one another in college. anyways i bit the bullet and asked her out and ive just come back off the date and it was well mint. the reason i asked her out was because i had to get in before another guy asked her out otherwise i'd have beaten myself up. My advice to you is to ask her out "what time you finishing tommorow, fancy goin for a drink" and there, she can either say yes or no. if yes GREAT if no you can still be freinds.
hope this helps mate
2007-02-03 10:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ally Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all lik if ye talk to each other on msn why cant ye talk to each other in school go up to her the nest day and just talk bout whatever ye talk bout on msn. you should get an idea if she likes you or not. who knows mayb she thinking the exact same thing as you and if you dont make the first move it could go on like this for a while. bacome her friend in skool first and see how things go gud luck xx
2007-02-03 10:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she wants to be friends but i cant understand why you don't talk at school are you ashamed of her or her of you? Taking this into mind i would say don't say anything you will only get hurt
2007-02-03 09:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me as though shes flirting with you. ask her who she has a crush on, give her the chance to tell you if she likes you. then ask her what shed say if you liked her. that way if she looks uncomfortable you havent humiliated yourself by asking her out and you can still be good friends, but if shes totally ok with it, you got yourself a girlfriend......oh btw, dont ask her on msn- thats tacky and youll need to see her reaction. ask her in private. good luck xxx
2007-02-03 09:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being nice 2 her she'll definately fall for u
2007-02-03 09:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by *JOSHIEY* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow-never rush.From what you say it seems that ur only friends - sorry
2007-02-03 09:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't hurt to ask her. It seems like she could like you or she only wants to be friends...but either way you get to be with her and starting off friends is way better!
2007-02-03 09:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the ho out thats the only way to know chap. Whats the worst that could happen......by the way don't say will you go out with me HO?
2007-02-03 09:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by ahboyblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋