How can i get this guy to go out with me?

Question

This guy i know likes me but i cant get him to show it.He flirts with me all the time. But Im nervous and dont flirt back. How do i show him Im as intrested as he is?

Answer 1

You don't need to do a lot, being aloof is probably making him work for you! The best compliment you can give someone is spending time with them. So suggest little things to do together, like a chat or a coffee and let him take the bait.

Answer 2

You contradict yourself. If he flirts, he is showing it. You said he doesn't show it. You're the one who doesn't flirt back, so you're the one who isn't showing it. Your question must be "how do I show that I want this guy to go out with me?"

In which case, this is the answer:

Flirt back.

Answer 3

hand him a note with rele messy handwritting in crayon asking if you want to go out with me with a yes a no and a maybe answer

something a little less corny but not much:

just say "I've figured out how to do this with no embarrassment whatsoever. If you want to ask me out, smile. If you think I'm cute, breathe. Go." i have never not gotten a smile out of that

Answer 4

OMG!!!!! This is soooooo weird becuz I have the SAME EXACT PROBLEM. Is this how it is, you see him and he flirts a little and you want to flirt and say somthin bac but you are nervous that it will sound stupid? Well, if it is like that then we both have the same problem. All I can say is b yourself and do watev you think wil get his attention. That is wat LOTS of people hav told me. Hope this helps both u and me!!!!

Answer 5

Well if you know that he likes you..then why dont you get his phone number..dont be shy..because being shy will get you no-where with him and it will just prove how much you like him..I say go for it and if he does reject you then,you deserve somebody way better...GOOD LUCK HUN...