I need help. What shall I do!! plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz?

Question

There is this guy I met at work he is adorable, We became very close friends. We are going out now for 6 months (no sex or love stuff involved).
We like each other so much; we spend wonderful time together. We go to the gym together, to the movies, to the beach. He even hugged me and kissed me while we were sitting on the beach. Whenever he holds my hand he keeps kissing it. It makes me go crazy.. but he never said anything..

We are very comfortable together and we love spending hours and hours together.
I have very strong feelings toward him; when he hugs me I feel so wow..

I don't know if he loves me!! If he is scared of expressing his feelings!! Not sure!!
I don't wanna be pushy and don't want to scare him off. I don't wanna lose him. I don't wanna be the 1st one to express my feelings.. I wanna be sure that he loves me..

What shall I do, please help me to get the love of my life.. I need advice badly.

Answer 1

Just hang in there and stay the way you are, when He is ready He will make that move. Men are scared to express their feelings. Just remember you are friends and he is being romantic. Let time show it self. I know you want to yell your feelings from a mountain, but that may scare him off. so just show small signs, like an extra kiss to him back or a grab his hand to hold it, softly and smile, then look away. He may not be sure if you feel the same way so he is just stuck at that level. little things a little at a time, don't become overbearing and sure enough he will tell you what you already know.

Answer 2

I think that you all should take it slow and let the relationship grow on its own. You dont need to put a title on it ecspecially since you all such a wonderful time. If you feel like you are really loving him tell him that you have feelings for him and see what he says. I would not rush it since you are having such a wonderful time. Think about what will change if he says he is your boyfriend or he loves you?

Answer 3

If he's really doing all these things, it appears as though he feels as wonderfully as you do. The time you spend together is great. You don't have to say "I love you" to validate all the amazing feelings you're having.

Enjoy this period and hope that it lasts. Pushing yourself or him to have to accurately verbalize the feelings you're having could bring a new dimension to your relationship and soon things won't seem so awesome.

Take your time. He doesn't need to say "I love you" in order for you to feel loved.

Answer 4

You should talk to him, ask him what does he mean whith all those expressions of what your thinking is love. You could ask him if he does that like because your his friend or because of something else and tell him that it doesn't bother you or anything and that he can tell you with trust what is it because it doesnt matter what he tells you you aren't going to get mad and it's not going to change anything between you two.

Answer 5

The best way to say this is how do you feel towards me. Be direct if he loves you he will tell you. If you think that there is a future with this man you need to know what is involved, Women always put their partners needs before theirs. DONT!!!!! hope this helps chicken :)

Answer 6

So u do love him then tell him I'm sure he feels the same but be careful don't seem too into him or he could take the ball in his court and start thinking he has your wrapped around his finger.
Honesty is the best policy.

Answer 7

I see it this way, one, you can go with the flow and enjoy how things are going or, two, you discuss your feelings with him, letting him know you want to know where you stand in the relationship. He'll either express his feelings or bolt, if he bolts then he's not worth it.
P.S. Dating someone you work with is not a good idea.

Answer 8

Just talk to him and ask him if he truly loves you. If you do not talk things out then you won't know where you are headed. But I am truly greatful for you that you are in love with him. I'm glad you found someone that you can enjoy your time with. I wish I was in your footsteps.

MJ

Answer 9

alright, u sure have dated long enuff, u need to get passionate
with him and hold him tighter and let nature take its course.
Get on top of him and go wid the flow.
He is just actin shy and a gentleman and waitin for u to make
a good , positive move.
U go GIRL>>>>

Answer 10

You need to tell him how you feel girl ! Better to do something you regret, than regretting something you never did ! Live life to the full and take risks ! Don't let him slip away !