If your significant other cheats on you does that mean the love is gone? Do men cheat just for meaningless sex even when they are in love with their significant other or does this mean they don't really love you? Is cheating a sign the relationship is over if you are not married yet? Which is worse cheating on a girl friend or a wife. Cheating on a wife because you are unhappy but stay for the children is one thing but isn't cheating on a girl friend beyond excuse. If you are just dating and cheat is this a sign the relationship is over before it started?
2007-02-03 09:19:02 · 9 answers · asked by LDR02 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cheat on my gf all the time and I love her - she is always there for me
2007-02-03 09:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never understood why men or women cheat when they are already in a relationship with someone else. My assumption is there is some insecurity on the cheater part. There is something lacking in that individual that they feel insecure about and some how feel validated by cheating. Then again perhaps the cheater just can't be satisfied or content with one person. There are many reasons people cheat but none to me is a worthy excuse to do so. From my personal experience I have never cheated but have been cheated on. I didn't feel there was any love. If he cheated on me then there was no love involved on his part. That's the way I see it. Nothing he could say or do would convince me otherwise. I immediately ended the relationship because the trust is no longer there. But it's up to you to believe whether this person is worthy of loving you the way you desire to be loved once he has cheated on you.
2007-02-03 17:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by Denese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my personal outlook on cheating is that some people are insecure about themselves so they try to get all the girls that they can. some guys cheat because they are arrogant, thay think that the person(s) that they are with deserve them. even though you shouldn't cheat at all, it is worse to cheat on a girlfriend than to cheat on your wife. if you cheat on your mate and you are not married yet then technically it is not binding yet. when you are in a marriage, it is till death do us part, unless you get a divorce. and you should not stay in the relationship just for the kids because they do not need to hear all that stuff that will be going on.
2007-02-03 17:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by keepin it reel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we cheat because we can. There's no other excuse and i challenge anybody to show me the contrary. You can love a person, but if you want to cheat and you find a person to cheat with you are going to do it. This is more of a self-esteem thing, not a love thing.
Now, if you are a man who is happy and satisfied with whom he is, you don't cheat, even if your partner is not good looking or doesn't live up to your expectations.
And it is true, once a cheater, always a cheater. You let us do it once, we will do it again. Why? Because we know we can.
2007-02-03 17:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by i say what i feel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you really love and care someone you wouldn't think to cheat on then. you would not get temped by anyone who get naked infront of you, coz all you were thinking is the person who you love, for you she is the most beautiful woman than anyone else.
Once you Cheat on your partner no mater how much they love you expect that relationship wont last, no matter how hard for both of you to make it work.
Why stay with your wife if youre not happy? it's bec of the children? you cheat on wife, kids somehow will find it and it would probably hurt them than the wife. it's ashamed if the children tell you better separate than stay if not happy.
2007-02-03 17:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by the choosen1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cheating can mean multiple things.
1. it could be a secret fantasy of his to have sex with other girls behind your back because it gives it kind of a dangerous feeling
2. your sex life might not be at its best point right now
3. he might not love you
4. his mind might not be in the right state of mide to be in a relationship
5. his mind and penis can be on two different pages
just cause a man cheats on you does not mean that he does not love you just try to spice up your sex life break out of your shell ask him some of his favorite fantasys and then act on them
2007-02-03 17:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by loves_to_surf16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may say he loves you and he may care, but if he eally loved you he would never hurt you like that!
You need to move on. Good guys don't cheat
2007-02-03 17:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by dab1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys cheat girls cheat,we all cheat.
2007-02-03 17:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems over to me
2007-02-03 17:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋