OK so, I like this guy a whole lot..He and i always flirt and love 2 be around each other...I found out he liked me and he found out i liked him...Anywho, he talks to my friend about me and says he likes me and is not gonna ask me out just yet. Then he says i am starting to stop like her because i like hard 2 get girls and she is not hard 2 get (lame exuse?)...Do u think that is stupid and that he should like me for who i am and what should i do???Please Answer!!!
2007-02-03 09:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With all the messages going back and forth, just maybe things got messed up. But if he did say that, I'd pull way back and for once-try and keep your feeling about the whole thing to yourself. I know it's pretty common for you guys to tell each other everything, but (girlfriends) I would chill out on that, and say nothing. Just say your not sure how you feel now after he said that. Because that's probably how you do feel. Once he hears that, his little head is going to swing straight real fast! He's doing it for a reaction! It's his maturity level. But you probably need to start now, learning to speak your own words for your self, than their is NO mistakes of what exactly was said. Plus you get to hear the bull right from the big bull's mouth! Hey, good luck!!! By the way, who you are is just fine, don't let anyone ever tell you any different-Your unique all on your own!!
2007-02-03 09:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang up the phone, don't call 911, I would hardly call this an emergency. Some guys do like a challenge in a girl. If all you are doing is giving in to him, saying all the things he wants to hear, trying to please him to get him to like you more, no offense, but I would get bored too. Be mysterious, make him come after you! If he doesn't, well sorry to say, but count it as a loss and move on.
2007-02-03 09:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by fhfan731 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, men like hard to get girls. However, i do agree with you that he should like you for who you are. i suggest that you treat him as a mere friend as this will give you time to know each other.
2007-02-03 09:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy's not worth the time of day. he's only interested in the chase, once he's got the girl he goes looking for a new one. he sounds like a player to me. you'll be better of with out him.
2007-02-03 09:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a loser. Play hard to get then make it clear you're just not interested.
2007-02-03 09:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes the games then you need to just ignore him for a bit. And see how he reacts.
2007-02-03 09:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by dab1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. Well, if he does not know that u know that he said that he likes hard to get girls then you should be hard to get. If he does know that you know that he said that then if you change now he will know why. Wat I say u should do is b yourself and if he doesn't like you then screw him!
2007-02-03 09:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
play hard to get
2007-02-03 09:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to darn long didn't feel like reading learn to abbreviate
2007-02-03 09:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by genesis b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋