ok..im in 8th grade ind my g/f just broke up with me today.i really love her and she told me she stil loves me.she said we just act like friends anyway and she is moving away at the end of the year so why should we go out. we are in same classes and everything.she sad she really really loves me and she is srry.she said she wants to be best friends.i wanna know is this somekind of break?is she testing me:?can i talk to her more and be more serious about relationshipps to get her back
?how can i get her back ?if i can get hher back?she says she loves me and wants to be best friend cause thats wat we act liike anywaYS IS WAT SHE SAID AND IS why she wants to break up does she still want to get with me
a couple days later i asked how many people she told we broke up and she said none she swore no onw knew is thAT A SIGN SHE STILL WANTS TO GET BACK TOGETHER
2007-02-03 09:12:28 · 10 answers · asked by skate_theory6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when she says 'love' she obviously means just as friends. if it were me i'd sit down and ask her why, and try to get the details. Maybe you can both be more like a couple, or maybe she found another guy, and doesn't want to hurt you. I hope i helped, but you really have to go with your instinct on this one.
2007-02-11 08:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things are never easy...But you've got to let her go...I know it's difficult, but If you really love her, you'll go ahead and still "be her friend"...Even though it hurts a lot you've got to be strong enough to be there when she needs you...And she WILL need you before she moves away this summer.
On the other hand, the classic "let's just be friends" line has been around for a long time...Maybe she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings...Either way, if you give her some space, the TRUTH of how she really feels about you will surface...It's not easy to be patient when you feel this way about someone, but it's the ONLY way you're going to find out.
Just be her friend when she needs one and don't ask her for anything in return...Just take what ever form of "friendship" she wants to continue with you...And give her some SPACE...There are some things that only SHE can understand and is not able to explain - even to the people she cares about.
2007-02-03 17:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jefferson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a girl tells you she wants to be best friends with you that means she doesn't want you anymore.
The thing is Girls usually become bestfriends with other girls, she has started to look at you as just one of the girls.
I know this sounds strange to you and it doesn't actually mean she really thinks of you as a girl but as someone safe, which could be a very good thing sometimes because a lot of times girls will hang around you in their underwear and they don't care because they think of you as one of the girls.
This is many many years of experience talking.
2007-02-03 17:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by DECEMBER 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, just calm down the same thing happened 2 me 3 days ago. wat ur g/f is doin 2 u right now my b/f did the same 2 me. it just meant she wanted 2 take a quick brake b cause she didnt know wat 2 do. like i said the same thing happened 2 me and i got back wit my b/f. just give her some time and space 2 think.
2007-02-11 15:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Krispi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh if she" loved" u she wouldnt barke up with u she would have tryed everything to love her back but obviusly she dont giva squat and u probobly didint give her enouhg attention kissing,etc..
maybee u should sit down with her and talk ask her how can ya work it out and to be straight forward that way ul know where u messd up for next time
2007-02-03 17:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by LeonZe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she has a nice way of breaking up with you , by giving you the # friends speech #
if you truly love her , do not hang on ..for the love you have for her ..............LET HER GO , it can hurt at times , but it is the nicest gift ,you can give one .......you truly love :-)
if love was meant for you two ? it will happen ...obviously not now ..................
2007-02-11 14:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by HJW 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see her, kiss her really passionately and say that "we don't only act like friends." ;-)
2007-02-11 13:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have two words to say to you: GROW UP.
2007-02-11 17:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im with decembr
2007-02-03 17:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
8th Grade..!!??...........ROFLMAO...!!!!!
2007-02-11 15:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Matsukaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋