My wife knows I have had a fantasy for a long time to have sex with another man and she's fine with it as long as it's safe and clean. So where can I find another married guy who is safe and clean to hookup with?
2007-02-03 09:03:21 · 11 answers · asked by Mike J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-03 09:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a married man who have sex with guys out of my marriage. However, I know dozens who fits in. I could have chosen this path myself since I was married with a girl for 8 years before assuming (pretty much to myself) my homosexuality. I never had sex out of my marriage though but I can't tell you that I never wanted to. So, it might be just a lack of opportunity to me to do the same as you're doing. I do not condemn nor applauding you. But, I'm glad you're experimenting and having such an open mind. My advise is: don't let this run for too long. It's so lame to see those old married lads getting guys on the streets and running a perfect mid class family during the daylight. We should just to commit to our own happiness, nothing more than that. Here is what I think: I think you're gay or bi but you never paid proper attention to your guts to experiment that earlier in your life. May be you just follow the course that everybody does because it was expected from you. Now that you found what you like, you should reevaluate your decisions and fix your course. Be honest to yourself and that would be the best policy.
2016-03-29 03:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can hooking up with another guy be safe and clean???
What's safe and clean is for you and your partner to only have relations with each other. Then, you eliminate the risk of catching something, or, more importantly, giving it to your wife!
2007-02-03 09:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by NorthvilleNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to agree with backinbowl on this one. Sure it sounds like fun, but you ought to be prepared for what comes afterwards, will you or he regret it? would he be jealous? There are a lot of things you really need to think over before doing it as it might ruin your marriage. Try looking in one of those swinger places, and if you can talk to a person who has done it before, much better.
2007-02-03 09:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by i say what i feel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gay,why not come out and be fair to yourself and your wife.
2007-02-03 09:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are putting your marriage in jeopardy REGARDLESS of "what your wife says"!
2007-02-03 09:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROSS, your wife will never look at you the same way
2007-02-03 09:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try the yahoo personals.
2007-02-03 09:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by Food For Thought 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plenty of sites in nevada...google it.
2007-02-03 09:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try craigslist
2007-02-03 09:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by Patrick P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋